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You fell in love with the idea of her, not her.
We can feel people like you. You make women unhappy in a deep way. From the inside out. No matter what we do, we are lying. If we are happy, you’re betrayed. Your suspicions are reality. My advice is to take a break from dating. Angry and distrustful just for the sake of it means it’s time.
eh whatever since you want to be wishy washy no one cares about your passive aggressivness. I said wtf I said. WHY DO YOU WANT ME TO BE NICE> IF i have to be “nice” or pretend to not be angry or express it in a “non offesnsive way” WHY CAN HE JUST SKATE PASS?! He lied. YOure telling me to change how I feel/how i respond for a LYING PERSON. They didnt care about my feelings when they lied. SO FUCK THEM. and you too.
For sure, part of a good friendship is calling out shit you don't like.
How often is she feeling bad?
As far as I know she’s just on a long visit somewhere. Not moved. She lives only 3 hours from him typically and I’m a city he frequently visits
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Either he's telling the truth and the person he is now is not the man you fell in love with. If he's not getting help for his issues, there's no guarantee that another “switch” won't happen again. The fact that he refuses to get help would be a reason to leave him.
Or he's lying and frankly anyone who would be that manipulative and deceitful is someone you need to cut out of your life ASAP.
Break things off with him and get therapy for yourself because this kind of thing can really mess you up and make it difficult to trust in future relationships.
He pays the rent and his own bills (credit cards, car payment etc. I pay utilities and my own bills (credit cards, car payment, etc.). Then we both take turns paying for groceries
What are her plans if you decide not to move in with her? Is it like, she could afford to online with roommates, but if you two want to live together you’d need to make up the difference? I could see how that would be fair.
The “arguably” in this post made me laugh
Hmm, ok, well, often when people fight a lot, it’s because one or both partners are being defensive. Maybe google defensiveness in relationships and solutions for it, see if that helps.
Have you ever googled his name and the place he works? If it’s at a practice there should be a result, not sure what would come up if he works at a hospital. It just really, REALLY seems like he isn’t actually a doctor. Anyone can print some stuff off the Internet that says anything. If he really is a doctor, he’s using that as leverage to accentuate his lies. He’s a weird dude, please stay away from him.
Let's put aside that he wants to have sex and a child with another woman… He just wants a child for his mother. To make her pride. Thos is so wrong. And who should rise the child? And he has depression and is isolating from himself and then he wants to get a child? A responsibility for his life that involves so much work and costs? This whole think sounds so immature and selfish. I bet he has put no thoughts anything. He see this as buying a new toy.
You just are together for one year and he already shows you such a side. He also knew of your condition and somehow it seems like “i want an excuse to dleep with another women”. Blood pressure is normally perfectly treatable with medications and diet. So this is notjing what makes you feel pressured to give in.
Maybe he already got his affair pregnant and now must fake a reason why he wants a child with another woman.
For just the way he want to use a child as a tool, and giving no thought about everything, i would be out.
Dating a grandpa is wild
I’m sorry, your boyfriend seems clueless. Not only is he clueless, he tried to flip the script and be insulted that you would relish the opportunity to online in places that have very little diversity. I would think long and hot about marrying and/or having a kid with this man.
Hey so just like…. That's not what boundaries are.
Boundaries are something you do yourself, not something you force another person to do.
A real boundary: “if you continue to yell at me while I'm on the phone, I will no longer answer your calls”
A control tactic (not a boundary): “I have a boundary against being yelled at so you can't yell at me anymore”
Boundaries are something that you personally uphold, not something you force another person to do. Party of learning to set boundaries is accepting that you cannot control others behavior.
Your girlfriend isn't setting a boundary, she's defining an etiquette for your relationship. That is something you both have to agree to, just as couples define things like contact frequency, monogamy, the bounds of what is and isn't considered cheating (is porn cheating? Talking to friends of opposite sex? Dining with colleagues?)
I do not think your partner gets to unilaterally decide who you can and cannot have lunch with, but those are my personal views of a relationship. This is a decision the two of you have as a couple. This could reveal that you have incompatible views of professional conduct in a relationship.
This is so screwed up. This is exactly the type of social gathering that a normal boyfriend would want to bring his girlfriend to. And he leaves you hanging on weekends? You are not wrong to be concerned.
He does not seem very respectful. I’d keep my distance. Find a guy of your faith who shares your values and doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable.
Have you talked to her about this? Surely she must be thinking some of the same things. No physical intimacy for five years in your early twenties?
Ugh ?♂️
Your husband got red pilled. I’m so sorry.
The problem with this kinda of propaganda brainwashing is that anything you do to get him away from it is going to work against you and make him feel vindicated in his new beliefs.
You should do some reading and research on how to communicate with people that have been radicalized. Also you need men in your life to help you.
Do you have male friends or family that he respects. Get them to initiate conversation with him and tell him what losers these guys are that he’s listening to.
But unfortunately, this may be the end of your marriage. If nothing above works and get keeps going deeper in these beliefs, there’s nothing you can really do. It’s like being married to someone that suddenly joins a new religion. Your beliefs might just become incompatible for any kind of relationship.
I am sorry.
Well you're a better friend then he is.
His situation is horrible but that doesn't mean he gets a free pass to sexually harass you.
So what you're saying is you want to get a house that you know your partner will greatly dislike, and then expect her to move in at some point to a home she COMPLETELY DISLIKES. A house is a long LONG term investment. Like. Could be 30 years. Do you expect her to give in if you buy the house? Because more likely she will acknowledge that this is a sign that you don't care about her preferences.
There's a difference between that and buying something that might last like. 1 year.
I did a while ago. And at first he said “ofc I’d pick you over porn” then it turned into “I need it. It’s a part of me. Are you in or out?”
wtf is the point of a long distance fwb????
I see a nursing home in your future ?
That still makes you a liar ???
Just tell her the truth dude. Copping it on the chin is part of being an adult. If keep weaseling your way out of it, it’ll make you look even worse.
You hardly know him though