You are acting blind He cheated on you.. proceeds to lie about it. Then tells you it's true…RED FLAGS SCREAMING but nah you'll forgive him and waste your time with him then wonder why you wasted time with a cheater.
What did you do wrong? You didn’t plan. Even if she is not pulling her share of the weight, you have children to feed, she clearly isn’t going to step up, so next time you arbitrarily quit your job, have a better one lined up.
I feel sorry for her but she is not in a place to be in a relationship. If a lost jacket spirals into a major crisis, she needs to put her health and treatment ahead of being part of a couple.
At least he's been honest and upfront with you. Pretending otherwise would be a lot worse.
You are acting blind He cheated on you.. proceeds to lie about it. Then tells you it's true…RED FLAGS SCREAMING but nah you'll forgive him and waste your time with him then wonder why you wasted time with a cheater.
Wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't the first time either.
Honestly, I don’t think the issue is you NOT being 20. It’s that there’s still a 20+ year age gap.
You don’t want a guy that dates that far below his age range. Trust me. I’m 37 and it seems SO awkward to think about dating a 19 year old.
You can certainly talk to him. But you also need to be prepared to apologize for snooping his phone and whatever trust issues arise from that.
I don’t see why you couldn’t have asked him to call your phone for you instead of grabbing his.
And now you’ve seen stuff that has you bothered even though you have basically no context.
Like….I’m in this sub. I interact on this sub. But I’m not having any relationship issues myself.
What did you do wrong? You didn’t plan. Even if she is not pulling her share of the weight, you have children to feed, she clearly isn’t going to step up, so next time you arbitrarily quit your job, have a better one lined up.
What did you reply? (How did she let you know?)
She might be, stressing over it does no good. Its just dinner.
Girl bye… ones partner should never deal out punishments by withholding affection. That’s a red flag
I feel sorry for her but she is not in a place to be in a relationship. If a lost jacket spirals into a major crisis, she needs to put her health and treatment ahead of being part of a couple.
Yeah trans women know damn well that’s dangerous