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Anna (brunette) and Luna (blond), 18 y.o.
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Date: October 7, 2022
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He seems to think it’s a bad thing. It’s an accusation if it’s false and the other person is treating it like something to be ashamed of.
Imagine if it was something less charged, like getting up for a snack. Imagine if anytime you got up to pee, or even rolled over and woke your partner up they said “did you just go get a snack??? What are you doing up?” There isn’t anything wrong with it if you did, but being constantly policed for it, especially when it’s untrue, would feel pretty bad.
And it also speaks to weird underlying issues, since he clearly thinks it’s bad and assumes she must be doing it a lot.
I feel that he is taking his exes feelings more into account
In her mind it seems like this is “his feelings for me vs his feelings for his ex” instead of “his feelings for me vs his feelings for his dog, which his ex controls”.
That the ex doesn't want “her” dog around his GFs seems like she's using it to control him, and it's unfortunate that due to the perspective OP is coming at this from, we don't have much context on that at all.
Everyone always says “just divorce him” but you should just divorce him. Sounds like his brain is entirely mush and there's no hope.
I can see a some scenarios for what happened during the first night:
There was no accident that the third coworker couldn't come and it was planned by Jim to get alone time with your girlfriend. Same but planned by both or your gf and she cheated.
Completely happening as your girlfrend said.
In the future I would be vary of Jim because even if your girlfriend didn't cheat this time, getting closer to an older more mature guy can easily lead to an affair. Starting with an emotional affair leading to a physical affair. It would be completely fair that you are not ok with her having 1 on 1 time with him especially in the evening and nights.
Ugh….how long have you been together? Do you trust each other? Have she given you any reason to not trust her? I think you made a big mistake and are showing a major lack maturity and security within yourself and your relationship. I am shocked and disgusted your boyfriend would just drop a friend he has had that long. And just a story from my life and a healthy relationship…. My husband and I both come from tight knit groups of friends. It was not uncommon to hook up with a friend every now and then, realize you were better off as friends and carry on. (Keep in mind we early to mid 40’s now) We each had a person, our respective best friends, stand up in our wedding party with whom this exact situation occurred. That being said you know your own boundaries but the mature thing would have been to end a relationship not force him to sacrifice for your own insecurities.