You've been engaged for 2 years. You're not yet married and he's doing this? Forget the “sex” part, he was still engaging with her substantively for quite some time.
Unless you already have kids with him, leave.
You're young, nothing to tie you to him, and you still have plenty of time to find someone who respects you.
I'm not sure it would be different if you had kids with him, but if you have nothing to tie yourself, it's a no brainer.
Maybe do I need to agreed with him more often even when I really don't want to ?
Nope, that's not how you should deal with the situation, especially because it's painful for you. Even if it wasn't, that's a big nope and a serious ?
You need to take a breath and think if the relationship is worth. It doesn't seem to be looking from the outside. But that's something you need to decide.
Is it really that or are your beard irritating her skin and making her feel pain too ? Do you groom your beard well enough ? Do you use products so it won't hurt her skin ?
What did you actually walk in on? It sounds fishy anyway, I would tell her to be honest with you and if she can't do that, I think you should break up with her.
I put it off and off and lost so many opportunities but I finally asked him today super randomly ! I think he knew it was coming but he said yes so fast I was shocked!
Hey, at least it’s a way to practice with someone that’s not going to be serious. If you’re not confident in yourself, maybe some time with her would help you build that? Don’t let she be an issue.
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You've been engaged for 2 years. You're not yet married and he's doing this? Forget the “sex” part, he was still engaging with her substantively for quite some time.
Unless you already have kids with him, leave.
You're young, nothing to tie you to him, and you still have plenty of time to find someone who respects you.
I'm not sure it would be different if you had kids with him, but if you have nothing to tie yourself, it's a no brainer.
Right! And where was this want her man to take care of her mentality with her does the minimum baby daddy. Gross.
Either she wants a dad or a sugar daddy but sure as hell not what a partner does.
Maybe do I need to agreed with him more often even when I really don't want to ?
Nope, that's not how you should deal with the situation, especially because it's painful for you. Even if it wasn't, that's a big nope and a serious ?
You need to take a breath and think if the relationship is worth. It doesn't seem to be looking from the outside. But that's something you need to decide.
Is it really that or are your beard irritating her skin and making her feel pain too ? Do you groom your beard well enough ? Do you use products so it won't hurt her skin ?
What did you actually walk in on? It sounds fishy anyway, I would tell her to be honest with you and if she can't do that, I think you should break up with her.
He didn’t ask any details of your trip. And I didn’t say he wasn’t interested. Just that he seems neutral regarding you.
I put it off and off and lost so many opportunities but I finally asked him today super randomly ! I think he knew it was coming but he said yes so fast I was shocked!
It’s weird that he pushed for you to meet them and then decided it’s too fast. He may have just calmed down.
I AM a POS , but as long as I don't bring any other shit with me I'm totally fine with my life.
Hey, at least it’s a way to practice with someone that’s not going to be serious. If you’re not confident in yourself, maybe some time with her would help you build that? Don’t let she be an issue.