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Pause on the whole gift exchange and consider this.
He tells me it’s a normal to have slept around and dating a 26yo I should of expected it. But the body count thing is not an issue as I slept with people prior to our relationship too. It’s more so he says I should feel less insecure and it comes down to trust. I never had an issue before the situation with him seeing this first girl. But I wouldn’t of cared if she had said it was lovely to meet me/made an effort
It was a fat joke.
You're woefully ignorant.
When it comes to relationships (not dating) the important thing is if you find them attractive or not. It's a lot more of a binary answer than a scale. How hard you are will definitely land you more dates, but the quality of the dates are what land you in a relationship. Being naked helps initially, but its effects wane.
Relationships can still be amazing, regardless of if they're with someone “out of your league”. Who gives a crap how naked someone is as long as you two have chemistry?
You never care for different people the same way. Loves vary since no two people have the exact same strengths, weaknesses, and the path they've taken through life. Don't look for another her: look for someone you can find joy with. So long as you take that approach, you can appreciate what you had with her without that poisoning what you find with someone else.
As far as enjoying the last couple months go: don't try to force yourself to change your feelings. Embrace those feelings and talk them out with her. If you don't have the capacity to enjoy the last couple months, why tarnish the good times you two have had together thus far? Sometimes accelerating the end is correct. You two should talk about what's best for you both (and ultimately, you need to focus on what's going to be best for yourself).
Good luck OP.
They’re the same. Chill
Nope. Personal preference. I get the ick about younger guys.
They both mean someone is unavailable. The rest is pedantic
hmmm I’m mixed. He did drop the ball on planning childcare, but you’re saying he planned nothing for your bday but he did plan going out to dinner?? To me that would be considered planning something.
However, if you go all out for his bdays then I understand why you feel let down
Leave first. You can pay him slowly when you have the money. If you are thinking of paying lump sum, you have to take a loan or never leave him at all (this will be simplest, status quo), but you have to accept your life as it is with him. Ehatever it is, it is your choice.
That too!
I’ve heard of stories of people who have actually tried, so… Glad we were able to enlight each other about these stuff haha
We have been together for 2 years with xer, xhe is the most beautiful and caring person I have met in my life. I am not going to leave xer.
What do you mean by 'man code'? You think there's some hidden meaning to what he's telling you?
Its a flame, you don’t know what he is like after work, you don’t know his faults, you like the image of him. Haha, its very naïve. But you seen the worst in your bf, and still love him. You been through the highs and lows with your bf, and still love him and he seen the worst and best in you too.
Sure, lets say you date this new guy, ohh wait, a few months later and you meet his friends and one of them is even better than him! You go from infatuation to infatuation, and you wake up alone.
Love is a choice, yeah you know your partner and it is exciting to meet someone new. But set boundaries, keep it friends only, don’t do things out of work with him. Invest the effort into your relationship not with him. You are setting yourself up to cheat.
Things are perfect with your man, but you still are tempted. If you are not content with stability and need drama, that is a deeper issue.
This is fairly common with some people his age. He basically doesnt have the inner resources to be supportive of you, for whatever reason. Ive noticed they can also become conflict avoidant and feel overwhelmed/angered by problems they don't feel they could solve.
My advice would be to talk to him about it but lower your expectations a bit. As he gets older you are going to find more and more that you are in the more parental role of looking out for his wellbeing and keeping his spirits up instead of vice versa.
yeah he's super pissed. let him be. he doesn't want to snap at you.
let.
him.
be.
don't make it about you
Ugh honestly after reading sooo many comments I'm glad there's finally one from someone with sense that has decided to subscribe to reality.
People writing “trans women are women” and all sorts else. Trans women are biologically male, that is the reality of it.
This means that fundamentally, OP has been catfished into a gay relationship. OP can be fine with this, but he is also entitled to not be fine with this. It would not make him transphobic to not want to be with a biological male. Preference is preference.
There is a very dangerous message being spread by the trans agenda that if you don't date a trans woman (or trans man), you're transphobic. This is ridiculous and unfair.
I'm a big fan of Blaire White, a trans woman on youtube. She (yes I respect her enough to use her desired pronoun) KNOWS she's a biological male and is fine with that! She KNOWS that her partner, who is into trans women, is technically, in a sense, somewhat gay. He knows that too! And they're both fine with it.
There is nothing wrong with OP being fine with dating a trans woman, but I am sick of how many people are writing that it's no different than a biological female. It IS different.
If a trans woman doesn't disclose that they're biologically male, it's catfishing. Just like if you meet someone live, if they don't disclose their pic and name are fake, it's catfishing.
But NOPE I'm transphobic for living in reality because some people find it offensive -.-
People have no problem with trans people, but it does not mean that everyone has to include them in their sexual preferences. That, is, ridiculous. It's like a gay man telling a straight man that he's homophobic for not being gay.
Let the downvotes hit me, it needed to be said.
Try keeping your mouth closed. It works perfectly.
Try keeping your mouth closed. It works perfectly.
Shes in the wrong for sitting on this info for as long as she did.
Maybe a blood test.