What is wrong here exactly? Either you're hypercontrolling and need people around you to do exactly what you say or you're a little divorced from reality. Either way it sounds like a shit situation for your wife, who is behaving normally, and you should see a therapist for sure.
Your immaturity is showing, I'm afraid. You're in the honeymooon phase and 6 months is not nearly enough time to get engaged. You need to experience way more life together before you can know he's the one.
My advice? Take him at face value and just slow down. He wants you. He's happy with you. You're scaring him moving so fast. There is no rush here.
It’s because many men don’t see women as real people. It’s not something that’s inherent to the nature of men that makes them want to abandon all partners and would therefore equally effect gay men, it’s completely about how women are viewed.
Why a Doberman? Have you had one before? Have both of you had dogs before?
Honestly it sounds like he doesn’t have what it takes to be a pet owner regardless, and the two of them will never get along. The dog doesn’t trust him and now he doesn’t trust the dog. Personally I’d keep the dog and get rid of the guy, but that’s me.
I guarantee what it really means, in this case, is that the other guy didn't want anything more serious, and she was afraid of losing both of them, so she lied to OP after the other guy broke it off with her.
What is wrong here exactly? Either you're hypercontrolling and need people around you to do exactly what you say or you're a little divorced from reality. Either way it sounds like a shit situation for your wife, who is behaving normally, and you should see a therapist for sure.
Your immaturity is showing, I'm afraid. You're in the honeymooon phase and 6 months is not nearly enough time to get engaged. You need to experience way more life together before you can know he's the one.
My advice? Take him at face value and just slow down. He wants you. He's happy with you. You're scaring him moving so fast. There is no rush here.
Sure. Whatever. Her abuse is a reaction to his abuse. Shame on him for abusing her before she abused him.
Who cares? None of it matters. The relationship is toxic and they should just cut it out.
Pee Diddy and Caresha ??
It’s because many men don’t see women as real people. It’s not something that’s inherent to the nature of men that makes them want to abandon all partners and would therefore equally effect gay men, it’s completely about how women are viewed.
Why a Doberman? Have you had one before? Have both of you had dogs before?
Honestly it sounds like he doesn’t have what it takes to be a pet owner regardless, and the two of them will never get along. The dog doesn’t trust him and now he doesn’t trust the dog. Personally I’d keep the dog and get rid of the guy, but that’s me.
I guarantee what it really means, in this case, is that the other guy didn't want anything more serious, and she was afraid of losing both of them, so she lied to OP after the other guy broke it off with her.
I understand how you feel but you don’t even live together. It’s his right to have a gun if he feels the need for it.
Never take back a cheater. She clearly doesn't care about rebuilding trust. I hope you can leave before she has sex with her ex again