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what do you want me to do [7 tokens remaining]
Date: March 26, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
what do you want me to do [7 tokens remaining]
it seems like you are the kind of woman who likes to keep a guy interested in you just to satisfy your ego, which is pathetic. i used to be like this… when i was 15 yo. you are an adult. grow up. let the poor guy move on and stop being jealous. you don't have his attention anymore, get over.
the best advice i can think to give you is try to answer this question: do you really want to spend the rest of your life like this?
I'd say if you are finding her attractive then it's time to really put some distance in there. Think about how youd like your gf to behave in a similar situation, if she found herself in a friendship with some guy she felt attracted to, I'm guessing youd be hoping she would pull away from that situation.
Friendships are one thing, but if there is also attraction it's just a firework waiting to go off.
I don't think it's a good idea to socialize with her outside of work, and the texting and convo types sound a little too intimate for me from a platonic viewpoint.
I guess ask yourself this, if you didn't find her attractive, would you be bothering to keep up the contact? I'll bet this isnt the first person of the opposite sex that you've worked with, but if this is the first one youve really clicked with and developed a friendship with, why is that? Do you actually have stuff in common or is this built on the excitement of getting to know someone you are finding attractive? Things to ponder. I'm not saying theres a right way or a wrong way to be friends with someone,I'm just saying this situation deserves some consideration, starting with being bluntly honest with yourself. We all enjoy it when other folks seem to appreciate us, but I think you already know this is borderline damaging to your relationship. Good luck.
You write it as if you respecting and knowing his culture is more important than your boyfriend for who he actually is. Personal traits are not necessarily stemming from culture. Also you want your mother to change to accommodate your boyfriend. And what’s the compromise here?
this is more than values, he’s just straight up a horrible and homophobic person.
Oh dont worry I’m SO done this time. I feel amazing. I blocked him on everything, blocked his family, he’s in jail, I’m getting a restraining order tomorrow, and my whole circle is going to know. The abuse was extremely bad and I need to value my life or else he will kill me