I think she’s someone who is going to exploit any space you give her. I would recommend looking into adult services in your area and respond to ANY requests from her with their details and “I’m sorry mom, I can’t help but these people can.” If she’s that active in her church they may have resources that aren’t part of the government
Honestly his behaviour is a little worrying, he's wrong to think low level workers will respect him or admire him for his stance. It might feel cool now, but when he's 50, and still working an entry level job having sabotaged every opportunity to progress due to his self sabotaging behaviour, he'll just be viewed as sad and pathetic, or at least if he continues getting upset at not getting promotion (if your happy with a low level position because you like the work or like not having more responsibility that's fine, but it seems your bf expects to progress whilst at the same time acting against management).
Seems you both need to consult your doctors, get a sleep study done to evaluate for sleep apnea, and then do the prescribed treatment.
Sleep apnea isn’t just “annoying” it can cause serious health issues.
She may not know that she snores. Most people have no idea until someone tells them.
The most common causes of snoring are obesity, smoking, alcohol, or soft palate deformity. Also can be tonsils/adenoids. But anyway..both of you should talk to your doctors.
Apparently being honest is rude and you should never criticize other people because that's unkind, but you also shouldn't need to suffer. Just never accept their dinner invitation again and and never admit why. If they ask, continue avoiding the topic forever and play dumb.
The only guys I know that have actually been able to handle an open relationship don’t get jealous at all and instead of freaking out when he found out about his partners previous sexual past thought it was hot AF instead of became a weird little monster
Pretty much. I always tell girls who are openminded that we can have another dude in the bedroom before another girl. I think it’s hard, and experienced women are a turn-on.
Most guys are insecure and possessive when it comes to sex
Look, you don't need to divorce if she doesn't want kids lmfao. But you DO need to accept that you won't have kids if she doesn't want them. If you cannot accept that, then, yeah, divorce is the right course of action
Despite what many people say, don't deprive yourself of something you really can't live without. If you're the kind of person who wants regular sex in their life it's really not something to be ashamed about.
If a dead bedroom is something you fear down your life, then I'd advise against marrying this person. But ultimately it's up to you to decide if it's what you can live! without. My parents live! with a dead bedroom and they're perfectly content and happy with it!
I'll be blunt. Idk why men are like this. What we care about are results and you are giving her results. It does make you less attractive when you focus on that one thing.
I can’t tell you what’s a dealbreaker for you, but this would be an easy and quick decision.
No one I’m dating could ever rebuild the trust they broke by accusing you like that
There's plenty of people telling him to just not care because she didn't mean it.
Whether she meant it or not does not remove the sting or make it less difficult to wonder if she did.
Nailed it. Sub won't care cos they are sexist af
I think she’s someone who is going to exploit any space you give her. I would recommend looking into adult services in your area and respond to ANY requests from her with their details and “I’m sorry mom, I can’t help but these people can.” If she’s that active in her church they may have resources that aren’t part of the government
Honestly his behaviour is a little worrying, he's wrong to think low level workers will respect him or admire him for his stance. It might feel cool now, but when he's 50, and still working an entry level job having sabotaged every opportunity to progress due to his self sabotaging behaviour, he'll just be viewed as sad and pathetic, or at least if he continues getting upset at not getting promotion (if your happy with a low level position because you like the work or like not having more responsibility that's fine, but it seems your bf expects to progress whilst at the same time acting against management).
Do you want to continue this relationship?
Seems you both need to consult your doctors, get a sleep study done to evaluate for sleep apnea, and then do the prescribed treatment.
Sleep apnea isn’t just “annoying” it can cause serious health issues.
She may not know that she snores. Most people have no idea until someone tells them.
The most common causes of snoring are obesity, smoking, alcohol, or soft palate deformity. Also can be tonsils/adenoids. But anyway..both of you should talk to your doctors.
Apparently being honest is rude and you should never criticize other people because that's unkind, but you also shouldn't need to suffer. Just never accept their dinner invitation again and and never admit why. If they ask, continue avoiding the topic forever and play dumb.
The only guys I know that have actually been able to handle an open relationship don’t get jealous at all and instead of freaking out when he found out about his partners previous sexual past thought it was hot AF instead of became a weird little monster
Pretty much. I always tell girls who are openminded that we can have another dude in the bedroom before another girl. I think it’s hard, and experienced women are a turn-on.
Most guys are insecure and possessive when it comes to sex
This is projection, your honour. Case dismissed.
Look, you don't need to divorce if she doesn't want kids lmfao. But you DO need to accept that you won't have kids if she doesn't want them. If you cannot accept that, then, yeah, divorce is the right course of action
I wish I had this flaw
We’ve gone out before he moved.
It’s weird though right? About what he said?
You could just ask him?
Despite what many people say, don't deprive yourself of something you really can't live without. If you're the kind of person who wants regular sex in their life it's really not something to be ashamed about.
If a dead bedroom is something you fear down your life, then I'd advise against marrying this person. But ultimately it's up to you to decide if it's what you can live! without. My parents live! with a dead bedroom and they're perfectly content and happy with it!
I'll be blunt. Idk why men are like this. What we care about are results and you are giving her results. It does make you less attractive when you focus on that one thing.