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Date: February 18, 2023
He's a mansplainer. Plain and simple.
Yeah, appreciate it. It’s just not something that crossed my mind. More like I’m in shock.
I'm 33 and I've been involved in hardcore/punk scenes since I was a teenager.
The comments about how you dress are perhaps partly accurate but they miss something bigger, imo, which is that you're a doctor, probably make a decently good income, and these dudes aren't super comfortable around the professional class. Like, beyond just rebelling against it, most of them come from working to lower class backgrounds. It's not rebellion in the sense of “screw you DAD I'm gonna do what I want,” it's more the rebellion of growing up without means, frequently to abusive or substance addicted parents, and being really fucking mad about it. Usually there are some people who are straight up homeless in these scenes, hopping freight trains and shit to travel.
They aren't gonna find you or your experience of life super relatable outside of music and politics, and you'll have the same problem relating to them. They might like you, you might be one of the cool ones, but it's gonna be hot to form more than a superficial connection. Not impossible, but naked. They wanna date people they can relate to.
What most people aren't mentioning is, trust me from experience: You're dodging bullets. Most of these guys suck in ways that have nothing to do with their class backgrounds.
Dick move from him at the start of the story. As someone with a partner, how he acted was very inappropriate. Dunno but the way you painted him is someone who's clearly infatuated with someone else. He sucks as a partner IMO.
Now for you, well, you've been neglected. You've met someone “better” that's why you are having these thoughts. You're probably confused as you're dealing with “grass is greener on Paul's side”.
I don't know if Paul's legit better for you or if he just look better due to being compared to your current (sucky) boyfriend. I do think you should leave your bf as it has become toxic and it seems like he doesn't want to cooperate to fix it.
There will be crying. There will be drama. You'll feel bad, hurt. But it will be healthier for you in the long run than being stuck in such toxicity.
He is controlling, he derails arguments, moves the goalposts, manipulates you, emotionally blackmails you, has double standards… I am sure there are more. Plenty of people have been cheated on and don't mistreat their future partners the way this man is mistreating you.
You don't need to be “managed.” you are a whole human being and an adult who can do what you want. There are more red flags here than there are international sporting events. Get out before he gets his abusive claws dug deep in you.
Let's just say my boyfriend throws 3-4 parties a week, is literally never here and that the house is never empty as there is always some fuckers doing dumb stuff or work-related. Can't get into detail for obvious reasons but you see why a child would hardly thrive in such an environment. He won't be abused in anyway though, no violence or neglect, just utter and complete chaos.
Lol he's not insecure. I am a woman, and if the roles were reversed, it's a hot no.
That may have been true but now you’re with him and she is trying to compete with you.
I haven't read all the comments but what stands out to me is that she got you both drunk before. The time to discuss these things is when you are both sober and not impaired (and horny is impaired). It feels manipulative to get you to agree while drunk (though in the end, she clearly doesn't care if you agree or not).
He would think she deserves jail time
I wouldn’t go back to that house. And him not thinking having a gun drawn on you is a perfectly good reason is bonkers and I’d question keeping him a bf.
I would sit him down and say that being good parents has to come first. Having birthday parties can be a simple, joyful thing you do for your kiddo. Why deny them?
His reaction is so extreme, I have to assume he has some issues with birthdays. I would tell him that he needs to figure this out, either with a professional or by himself. It's hurting your kid now, so fixing it is no longer optional.
If this is Instagram and the algorithm or if this is a him thing. Really changes the concerns and how I'd approach that conversation