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CiaraFerrero Public Chat Channel
Date: February 15, 2023
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CiaraFerrero Public Chat Channel
We're long distance so yes she sent me everything with consent. I'll let her know after work… Very worried for her because I won't be there to comfort or console her. I can only do so much on the phone
Without genital contact? No. At least not with me.
I know. That’s the thing. I know I can find somebody that meets my needs bc I know I’m a pretty desired person. Not just looks but interests /hobbies /work. But I love who my man is. I love how similar we are in how we view the world. But evidently, there are some fundamental differences. I more I talk about it, the more OK I feel about leaving.
For fucks sake I was just asking what people’s thoughts are on it; just wondering if others saw it the same way as me. Been friends with him for a long fucking time and it’s hot realizing one of my best friends is a narcissist.
You're considering killing yourself because of the small number of guys that your girlfriend slept with?
Do her a favour and let her go, so she doesn't have to deal with your ridiculous insecurities.
Lastly, speak to a qualified Therapist. You need serious help.
I'm not unusually tight, I just had a couple really big exes. I don't care about how large it is tbh, the penetration part is for his pleasure in my case, not mine
Now is a good time to set your boundaries. If she intentionally ignores them once you’ve clearly communicated them, then you know she doesn’t respect them and I would consider that an issue. Boundaries are a very important part of healthy relationships.
There’s a chance she’ll be apologetic or embarrassed or caught off guard, and that’s fair enough, maybe she made a bad decision and is willing to acknowledge it. Maybe she didn’t realize how much it would be and had already offered to pay for everyone. However, these kinds of speculations can be dangerous because you really have no way of knowing what was going through someone else’s head unless you ask them.
if you really like her, it’s worth a chat. If you don’t want to put in the effort with someone who, at best, can be thoughtless sometimes, and at worst, straight up disrespectful and entitled, then that would be your call as well.
Good luck!