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Date: October 5, 2022
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This is a fair assessment. She has apologized over and over again for that particular episode in our lives, and tried to explain what the point of all of it was. I guess I have never quite gotten the answer that I'm looking for or needing from her.
I have never brought that matter up in individual counseling, but it would probably be a good thing to do.
Thank you for your input.
Your sister had gone on several dates with him. She expected to continue going on dates with him, it sounds like. Regardless of them being boyfriend and girlfriend or “together”, it sounds like that was her expectation, right? Given you say she wasn’t planning on being “serious” with him until later, that very much states there is a later.
Thus, she did not expect her sister to sleep with him. If she planned on becoming serious later, she must have liked him, right? Can’t you see how that must have hurt her, then? This is a guy she likes, even if they’re not “together” by your definition, enough that they’re going on dates and she wants to be serious later. And you know this. She told you this, trusted you, and you still slept with him.
Why didn’t you tell her you were interested, or that you were sleeping with him? You did it behind her back, so some part of you must have known that it would hurt her, right, despite what you told her boyfriend? Otherwise, why did you keep it a secret?
You’re fixated far too much on them being “together”. I wouldn’t sleep with someone that one of my sisters was going on dates with, even casually, and definitely not if I knew she was planning on being serious with them later.
You thought it would be fine, given your take on people being “together”. The fact that your sister is deeply hurt and that everyone everywhere you’ve posted agrees with her should make you please step back and re-evaluate your worldview a little, because clearly that perspective is actively hurting someone you care about.
Step back, re-evaluate. Talk to your sister and apologize, go to therapy to get this perspective sorted out, and forget about the guy.