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Don’t make drastic decisions over a girl you probably won’t be with in 15 years tbh. I’d tell the same to a woman to not put her life on hold for no man so the same goes for you too.
She is stringing you along for the free rent and ego boost. It is cruel. Break up with her and move on with your life.
Consider this: One day she falls over at home and you're out having sex with someone else. She imagines what you're doing in that moment, while she's nursing her knees or lying on the ground, waiting for the adrenaline to pass. She thinks that if only she'd been able to give you sex, you'd be home with her right now, asking if she's alright. She wants to make you happy, but can't give you what you want. She remembers you getting ready to go out, leaving her. How many more times will this happen before it happens for good? How can she be sure that you can keep your body and heart separate during these encounters? Selfishly, she blames her body for betraying her, for ruining her happy relationship and forcing her to make such an offer to keep you. She resents your absence when she feels weak and vulnerable. Can she call you away in the middle of sex? That's shitty, right? So she gets back up and carries on, waiting for you to come home. She greets you with a smile and says she hopes you had a good time. She hopes you've been thinking of her.
Imo, it is very likely that you taking her up on this offer will begin the slow death of this relationship.
Consider this: One day she falls over at home and you're out having sex with someone else. She imagines what you're doing in that moment, while she's nursing her knees or lying on the ground, waiting for the adrenaline to pass. She thinks that if only she'd been able to give you sex, you'd be home with her right now, asking if she's alright. She wants to make you happy, but can't give you what you want. She remembers you getting ready to go out, leaving her. How many more times will this happen before it happens for good? How can she be sure that you can keep your body and heart separate during these encounters? Selfishly, she blames her body for betraying her, for ruining her happy relationship and forcing her to make such an offer to keep you. She resents your absence when she feels weak and vulnerable. Can she call you away in the middle of sex? That's shitty, right? So she gets back up and carries on, waiting for you to come home. She greets you with a smile and says she hopes you had a good time. She hopes you've been thinking of her.
Imo, it is very likely that you taking her up on this offer will begin the slow death of this relationship.
I'm really sorry you went through that, and glad you've found some healing since! I was also thinking trauma when I read the OP. Sexual trauma can sometimes result in behaviour like this (as can other kinds of trauma). I don't mean just having sex with a lot of people — that isn't inherently unhealthy/bad. But doing so in a way that is not healthy/safe for you or repeatedly ends in you being pained or harmed — that is when there is a not insignificant chance there's some kind of trauma there. Not to say that OP has to (or can) “fix” his friend. And I'd certainly be worried about the whole “dating revenge porn guy” too, and upset by it on an ethical level. But I think that in general this kind of self-destructive romantic/sexual pattern deserves empathy instead of judgement — even if one doesn't have the capacity to be right by the friend's side witnessing it all go down
You're not the one who 'throw away' 5 years of relationship. It's your bf who did this. He was cheating on you and got his 'reward.'
Nice.
It's a scam. He didn't even have to pay, all he had to do is make sure everyone know to block that number/id. Report that profile too.
I'm just LOL, OP, someone up there is looking out for you, letting you know you have a cheater as a partner. I sure hope we'd be seeing “EX-partner”
Dudes not inherently a creep for asking to take certain pics abs then having someone agree to take those pics lol. he also only touched her for poses lol Stop infantilizing people
She’s growing them and she’ll give birth to them, why is so outrageous for her to want them to have her surname?
Op isn't suggesting that they shouldn't have her surname. He wants to hyphenate so that they will have both.
He will be parenting them for 18 years, and he brought up real issues that it can create if he has a different surname than them. So why shouldn't they also have his surname?
And that was a whole thing bc at first in our relationship I was doing majority housework and cooking and we had several arguments before he started doing things like dishes/vacuuming/cooking without asking me first.
Ah… So this whole thing is extended passive aggression. He will do the things he's agreed to, but he will do it so that it really irritates you. And eventually you will tell him to never do the dishes again, and boom! he's gotten himself out of doing that chore.
You are married to a toddler, and he shows no signs of growing up. It will probably require professional help (and a desire on his part) for him to do so.