0 views
DEEP RIDE AT GOAL | PVT IS ON| SPECIAL LEVELS 22,44,66 [92 tokens remaining]
Date: February 10, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
DEEP RIDE AT GOAL | PVT IS ON| SPECIAL LEVELS 22,44,66 [92 tokens remaining]
Here’s the thing: we always have time for the things that we prioritize. If you don’t have time for him then he’s not a priority to you (by definition), and he is picking up on that fact and speaking up about it.
I've spent many nights at my (55yrF) son's (23yrM) house and we've shared a bed. One under the covers, one above. And anyone who jumps to the conclusion that incest is going on is just sick…….or experienced it themselves and projecting
My mother had a saying…….me thinks you doth protest to much
Sounds like you should dump them both, the bf sounds like a piece of work cheating on you and the “best friend” is an AH for spreading stuff you shared in confidence.
If the “best friend” just didn't want to watch you suffer I can understand and relate but telling strangers your business is over the line.
Jesus H Christ no. Ignoring that I’m a non candidate for egg donation and I would never inflict my genes on an innocent kid, you could not pay me enough to donate to my mother. And your mom sounds like someone who needs to minimize the chaos in her life, not add to it with another kid. And I would bet my entire bank account that she would try to get you involved if she lost custody of the kid for whatever reason.
On the contrary, you are doing too much for him. He's lazy, using you and your parents, and him ignoring you when you get home should be the least of your worries. He's not adding anything at all to the “relationship.”
It is never ok to force a child on someone. She’s a grown adult and is capable of handling life and making her own decisions and dealing with the consequences of her own actions.
Having a kid is a huge deal, life changer. They both aren’t being respect of you or inclusive of you. This is showing you that they both don’t value or consider you or your opinions or your marriage an importance. That’s not ok.
You can’t force someone into something like this. Tbh he sounds like a hobosexual (dude just wanting a free ride in life) so of course he was happy to assist in a pregnancy and is refusing to get work. He gets two women, locked in now, you and her providing for the baby and he can chill. Nope. I’d be leaving.
She’s an adult, don’t stay out of guilt for how she will handle it. You’re mental and physical well-being is just as important as theirs. Considering they aren’t looking out for you, you need to. Have a moment away from them and think long and hot and if you aren’t ready for a baby/ aren’t going to be ok for taking up their financial responsibilities/ not having a voice in your future. As they will continue to make plans without you/ disregarding you and your feelings. (Completely ok not being ok with this) leave.
You really do have just one life. Don’t waste it in people who clearly don’t care or respect you. The kid will also grow up knowing you resent it and that’s not good for kid either. They can’t handle or afford kid without you? Not your problem. They can trap you to stay through guilt and if they are going to make life decisions without you they can deal with the consequences without you.
Thank you so much for taking time to give me advice and sharing your experiences. It means a lot to me! I’ve actually been meaning to start the process to get a therapist and I am really hoping it helps. To be honest I’m a bit scared about breaking up, and if that is the best solution, I am not sure that right now is the time. I guess time will tell. Again, thank you for your advice. Especially because it was so positive and much more uplifting than I expected, which I’m grateful for. To be honest I was expecting the comments to be more negative and smack me into reality, but this comment makes me more optimistic about the future. Thank you so much!
It’s not you it’s me. That’s what she’s said to you. And it’s a perfectly legitimate reason to end something with someone. It could be she cheated. It could also be she just doesn’t like the way she is with you.
Oh honey. I'm so sorry.
Just take some space right now. Tell him you need time and just take 3 days or a week to process this.
You'll have all the strength you need once this all sinks in.
Just breathe.
You need to put an end to those deep convos you have with Mark during the night! Also if Mark flirts with you DO NOT flirt back, stop encouraging that shit.
I don’t think telling someone that they almost dumped their SO for their looks is exactly a supportive comment…