I'd do a paternity test, and then I'd have a private talk with the guy “friend” and explain things very clearly . If your wife gets upset, then big whoop . Who cares . You are the one footing the bill here . Stop worrying about how upset she's gonna get . It sounds like she is pretty lazy anyway . Shake things up . Don't tiptoe around subjects that obviously keep you upset . Hint , hint … that ain't living , friend .
I think that is great advice!
He will, 100%, do it to you eventually.
You should dump him and thank her.
She’s has a job interview 200 miles away this week :-(((
I'd do a paternity test, and then I'd have a private talk with the guy “friend” and explain things very clearly . If your wife gets upset, then big whoop . Who cares . You are the one footing the bill here . Stop worrying about how upset she's gonna get . It sounds like she is pretty lazy anyway . Shake things up . Don't tiptoe around subjects that obviously keep you upset . Hint , hint … that ain't living , friend .
Why are you worried about giving her space?
Can’t you find anything else you want to do in that time?
… from what op has said, she saw no red flags before the pregnancy. That’s also common, many partners change after conception.
It takes two to have sex. It's both their fault she's pregnant; especially since she refused to take Plan B or get an abortion.