You don't need his consent to be broken up. You also don't need for him to be on board, or assure you that he still likes you and doesn't resent you. He's entitled to be upset if he wants to be. You can't control the narrative here. Just like he can't choose to stay together when you don't want to, you can't decide that he won't be upset.
I would never in a billion years sleep at another guys house while in a committed relationship, unless I'm planning to fuck them. Time for a new girlfriend bro, Jim stole yours (is her name Pam by chance?)
I came to my decision thanks to this post thanks
You don't need his consent to be broken up. You also don't need for him to be on board, or assure you that he still likes you and doesn't resent you. He's entitled to be upset if he wants to be. You can't control the narrative here. Just like he can't choose to stay together when you don't want to, you can't decide that he won't be upset.
I would never in a billion years sleep at another guys house while in a committed relationship, unless I'm planning to fuck them. Time for a new girlfriend bro, Jim stole yours (is her name Pam by chance?)
She specifically told you she needs time. It's only been a few months. She was extremely clear.
So he cheats on you. And your worried you are going to hurt him.
This is why he is dating a child.
You should ask to see the video. Because when I search I find dating advice videos.
It could be innocuous. God knows I’ve googled weird shit when talking to my friends.
I suppose the best way to find out is to talk to him and ask more questions and express your feelings on the matter.