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We, ‘ve been streaming for the last 8 days?, 19 y.o.
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Date: January 22, 2023
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If it's not a definite yes, then treat it like a definite no.
You're quite right greg, possibly doesn't know how he feels himself, but in my humble opinion, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
I completely do not buy that this is trauma and that he could not “control it.” I think he was acting out a sick, pornified fantasy he saw on the internet, and that you were sexually assaulted. It's up to you whether you press charges, but do NOT engage with hm again.
You realize men cannot control when they get an erection, right?
And that your friend treating you like shit is, again, not his fault? Nor is not interpreting signs the same way you do?
Cut off the friend
First, six months is way too soon to move in together, especially when there are kids involved. Wait another 18 months and see how the relationship develops.
Second, her reason for not advertising your relationship is reasonable. She doesn’t want to hear it from her ex. And she’s the one who’s have to listen to him, and it sounds like he’s relentless. It’s not like she can never talk to him. They have kids together. And, yes, he’ll eventually find out, but let her manage that on her time.
I understand that this hurts your feelings, and you’re not “wrong” to be hurt, but I really think you’re better off not to push it. Trust her to know the best way to manage this.
Again, though, don’t move in together before she’s dealt with telling her ex. And I don’t mean you should use telling her ex as a condition of moving in together. I mean drop the living together idea until she’s told him on her own time with zero pressure from you.
Just curious, I'm not trying to sound judgy, is he always like this?
. . isn't doubling up on Condoms ineffective and increases the likelihood of it breaking?
Not necessarily. I mean, I get your point and it’s fair. However, for some it’s pure curiosity about what goes on in them. The site was featured on TV. That would likely draw a whole lot of attention to them and cause quite a crowd to want to peak. It would not even surprise me if there are men in the group with female monikers. Quite a few hold memberships to forums like that and do not, nor have any intention of participating.
As u/Sootwinged stated, No interest in a threesome from either of us. If its MFF, she considers it cheating if I participate, if its MMF, she also considers it cheating because her view is women dont count for her some reason, same thought if I slept with a man. For both, I dont agree with it and in my eyes, is cheathing.
Whether you did or not is besides the point Op.
What you need to take notice is HOW immature, impatient, insecure, paranoid, and possessive he is.
He blocked you on impulsive and pride.
He’s not rational nor logical, let’s his emotions steer his actions.
This is the kind of person you should never try to work things out with and let them keep you blocked because this guy showed his true colors.
He’s not capable of trusting anyone, even you.
You dodged a bullet and now go on enjoy the rest of your trip❤️
Lol you guys really do a lot of mental gymnastics on this sub. What you call fear shame and rejection is actually constructive criticism and we’ve been very happy for 8 years together so GFYS
What are you asking for advice on?
Coercive sex is an actual crime where I live!. This isn't just “questionable”, it's a sign of who he is as a person. It is true that abusive people can be overly sweet when they want something. But this isn't “goodness”. It's a manipulation tactic.
Gotcha. Did the therapist give you good strategies to help manage anxiety?
“He’s wonderful when he’s not being horribly toxic.” ?♂️
You seem to 'like' one that's not giving you what you want as they only want to be friends, and you 'put up' with the other because it's better then being lonely, now that you don't want her sex.
You need to let Amy go because she clearly wants a secure relationship that you don't want and your already wasting her time and leading her on to a unhappy dead end. And Sara probably doesn't like you romantically if she wants to remain as friends.
So all you can do is ask sara again when appropriate, and if she says no then look elsewhere. But cut Amy loose for God's sake.