In what other ways are you significantly more invested in the relationship than he is? You make more money so do you pay more bills? (Which is fine if it's done fairly.) Do you work more hours? How much more of the wedding are you paying for? Do you do all the wedding planning? You do nearly all or all of the cooking. You do nearly all or all of the cleaning. If you don't, you have to find, hire and pay for a cleaner (because you know he will refuse to since its you who wants one.) Do you do the majority of the mo eye management and budgeting? Planning for vacations, events, dates, travel? How does he do with celebrating you on Christmas, birthdays, anniversaries, etc? Do you celebrate him on those occasions?
You're very focused on working your ass of to marry this guy. Are you sure it's not going to be a waste of time and money?
I’ve honestly been thinking about breaking up, but we currently share an apartment and our rent is really good.
I’m thinking about breaking up right before I move provinces (September-ish) but if that’s the case I want to make sure she has stable living conditions. I don’t want to leave her high and dry.
piss off…IT isnt up to you to decide what is acceptable emoji wise in someone else's messages. I thank god every day that I wasn't born later, the whole mixed confusion over emoji's is fucking stupid and so is jealousy over it. Make no mistake, you are jealous and the issue is with you not the boss or your BF. Back off
I think he needs parenting classes and should never be left alone with the baby to neglect it. I understand not wanting to spend a ton of money on things that baby will outgrow or get bored with quickly, but the kid needs to eat, and more than 2oz per meal.
In what other ways are you significantly more invested in the relationship than he is? You make more money so do you pay more bills? (Which is fine if it's done fairly.) Do you work more hours? How much more of the wedding are you paying for? Do you do all the wedding planning? You do nearly all or all of the cooking. You do nearly all or all of the cleaning. If you don't, you have to find, hire and pay for a cleaner (because you know he will refuse to since its you who wants one.) Do you do the majority of the mo eye management and budgeting? Planning for vacations, events, dates, travel? How does he do with celebrating you on Christmas, birthdays, anniversaries, etc? Do you celebrate him on those occasions?
You're very focused on working your ass of to marry this guy. Are you sure it's not going to be a waste of time and money?
I’ve honestly been thinking about breaking up, but we currently share an apartment and our rent is really good.
I’m thinking about breaking up right before I move provinces (September-ish) but if that’s the case I want to make sure she has stable living conditions. I don’t want to leave her high and dry.
I feel like his reaction wouldn’t have been this extreme if it was a sister instead of a brother. You did nothing wrong.
The bar is currently a limbo stick in a bar in hell
piss off…IT isnt up to you to decide what is acceptable emoji wise in someone else's messages. I thank god every day that I wasn't born later, the whole mixed confusion over emoji's is fucking stupid and so is jealousy over it. Make no mistake, you are jealous and the issue is with you not the boss or your BF. Back off
I think he needs parenting classes and should never be left alone with the baby to neglect it. I understand not wanting to spend a ton of money on things that baby will outgrow or get bored with quickly, but the kid needs to eat, and more than 2oz per meal.