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Date: January 13, 2023
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Oof. As a disabled person myself, saying you’re okay with it and being open and encouraging of it are two separate things.
We carry a very large weight of guilt in that we feel we are holding you back from a normal life and relationship that you could have if you chose to leave. But when you’re so relentless on staying, even though we are so glad you do, it can feel a little that we need to make up for your sacrifice and give you rewards for choosing to stay.
Sounds stupid but mentally it’s a huge thing on a person having a well partner giving up a lot to be with you – you feel almost like you have to make it worth it. So you make compromises you don’t necessarily want in hopes that it’ll make their decision to stay worth it for you, and in hopes it’ll make our guilt a little less. We don’t always feel we deserve a full committed loving relationship when our health is such a large downside and sometimes a lot of work, so it’s natural to feel like we need to sacrifice something in the relationship as well so it’s even.
I don’t know if this is how she feels, maybe she’d like to be open to experiencing other sexual encounters too. But if she doesn’t show much interest and never seemed like the open relationship type, I’d have a deeper chat about her reasons for saying yes.
If there is even a seed of doubt or sadness in her in saying yes, it will slowly grow and strangle her from the inside out, destroying your relationship. By then you’ll be involved with others and she will be back to square one, and she’ll feel you are better off without her anyway.
Like I said I could be wrong and the situation may be different, but as a fellow disabled person in a relationship with someone who is well, I felt I should share what I feel and see in other relationships like mine.
All the best to you both
But he wasn't embarrassed enough to not humiliate you behind your back?