0 views
✨, Hard +Rub Clic✨PVT OPEN✨ /C2C /✨CHECK MY HORNY FANSODA ✨FOLLOW ME❤️ [13 tokens remaining]
Date: January 11, 2023
AmateurPub
Hey, I would highly recommend looking up Dr Ramani's video on “the invisible child” on YouTube.
I think you are going to see a lot of yourself. It's a role that dysfunctional families often give one of their most functional members. The one who won't throw tantrums or be mean to get what they want. So because they are the “easier” child, the parents never worry about them… And then start to never listen to them. Never think about them. Forgetting to include them in conversations. Always prioritize themselves and their other kids.
Siblings tend to just kind of think “oh yeah [sibling]? S/he's just kind of…. There.”
Don't involve you in planning. Don't notice important events in your life. Don't care how much you do… No amount of success will make the invisible child important. Don't care if you're at events or not.
And then as soon as you stand up for yourself… Of course they're going to tell you to be a good little invisible child and just fade into the background again. Because their only other option is to deal with the siblings who will throw tantrums.
Honestly, I bet your sisters haven't even noticed that you're gone. And I bet your parents are trying to get you back before they do… To avoid having to face any consequences for being shitty parents to you.
And when you're gone, I guarantee your sisters will just be mad at your parents because they won't get nice gifts anymore.
They won't actually care that you're gone. They won't try to get you back. They won't reach out and apologize and put an effort in.
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but my little sister is the invisible child in my family, and I've seen this play out in real time. And your post so so so strongly follows those patterns.
Honestly OP, I'm incredibly proud of you for standing up for yourself. Don't give in. And if you want good relationships with cool sisters, me and my sister would love to adopt you. ❤️ We can't be there in person, but we'd love to game with you and talk shit about family. ?
Life is better off without these types of people in it. I promise.
It’s not transphobia to be upset your child is trying to feed and getting nothing from the action.
So she’s using him as a tool, he’s losing calories trying to feed, getting nothing and risking a feeding strike.
She’s out of line. It would be different if she induced lactation and you discussed it not just make a unilateral decision like that.
This reminds me of those insane MIL stories where the mom catches MIL breastfeeding behind her back.
A Crack! ??????
My advice is he has to acknowledge that what he said was unmasked good and rude and offensive and he has to genuinely apologize and not be a dick about it.