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Kentuckypride1991, 31 y.o.
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Date: October 5, 2022
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Correctly calling out toxic behavior is not a problem.
Totally agree, and how you do that is to say what the problem is, why it hurts you and what you prefer instead. Just labeling something with a negative term like toxic doesn’t help and often makes things worse
How does he exist with other people? If he is able to go to supermarkets, work outside the home, live! with room mates and family in the past without these kinds of measures, this is controlling and abusive behaviour. Yes, clearly you are more intimate with him than the above examples, but such a high level of sensitivity would require living as a hermit in a world where even I (with a rubbish sense of smell) am exposed to stomach turning sweat smells from the young lads forced to wear polyester at my local supermarket. He is thus trying to make you feel on edge and insecure all the time about whether you smell.
That's a very selfish view of marital sex. Is it also her body her choice if she told him she was on birth control because she wanted a baby and he didn't?
It does sound really simple when you say it like that lol (in a good way!!) I think he's at least noticed I'm not really as pumped up about it as I ought to be, so I know I can't put this conversation off forever. It's not healthy, but I really want to just force myself to find it as hot as he now does. The more I think about it, the more I realize I would joke about it, but always tell him I wouldn't badger him to do it, and the times we did try it, he was the one to ask me to do it (which is what I wanted, I wouldn't want to risk him only doing it cause I kept asking or something) so maybe this dilemma was inevitable. I'm happy he felt comfortable enough with me to ask me to do something he's never asked a previous gf, so I think that makes me feel worse about shooting him down. I don't want him to regret asking me or feel ashamed. Sorry for the long response to your concise suggestion ?