He dropped the ball massively here, no denying it.
It sounds like he doesn’t do much around the home as you do it all, so from his perspective it probably seems like he did a lot, even though he didn’t, in fact it actually seems like he made more work for you.
The problem possibly comes if he thinks that as he’s the one bringing an income into the home, that he took time off for you, and he was doing something for you, to help you.
If he does, then he’s going to look at your complaints in one of 2 ways – a wake up call to do better, or that you don’t appreciate anything he does.
If it’s the first, then he’ll slowly start making improvements to his behaviour and help you around the home.
If the second, he’s going to resent you, and that causes it’s own problems in a relationship.
dump him he treats you like crap
Suggest it as a first resort. This will solve the root of the problem for both of you
With pet hair?
Possibly.
He dropped the ball massively here, no denying it.
It sounds like he doesn’t do much around the home as you do it all, so from his perspective it probably seems like he did a lot, even though he didn’t, in fact it actually seems like he made more work for you.
The problem possibly comes if he thinks that as he’s the one bringing an income into the home, that he took time off for you, and he was doing something for you, to help you.
If he does, then he’s going to look at your complaints in one of 2 ways – a wake up call to do better, or that you don’t appreciate anything he does.
If it’s the first, then he’ll slowly start making improvements to his behaviour and help you around the home.
If the second, he’s going to resent you, and that causes it’s own problems in a relationship.