You could do a chore chart or something along those lines.
But I'd say he doesn't know how to handle people actually showing normal emotion. He needs therapy for his trauma. It won't magically get better.
You can try to talk to him as calmly as possible, or write stuff down, but there's really no excuse for being a lazy or inconsiderate partner. Communication needs to go both ways and solutions and compromises need to be made together.
A good father wouldn't have put his child at risk for an STI at birth.
No I'm being straight up she messaged me the day after we broke up still pretty upset. I think she was looking back through pictures etc
I didn't encourage anything and didn't want to mess her around
I’m agreeing with all of this, I don’t think I would care if I sound crazy, I think it’s a legitimate question.
You could do a chore chart or something along those lines.
But I'd say he doesn't know how to handle people actually showing normal emotion. He needs therapy for his trauma. It won't magically get better.
You can try to talk to him as calmly as possible, or write stuff down, but there's really no excuse for being a lazy or inconsiderate partner. Communication needs to go both ways and solutions and compromises need to be made together.