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Barbara, 19 y.o.
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Date: December 29, 2022
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It’s a very small thing for your boyfriend to smoke his own joint and not share with someone else, when the consequences of illness for you can be so severe. I get perhaps feeling a bit embarrassed and guilty for not realising at the time that it could be a bad idea, but to dig his heels in the way he did goes beyond that. The fact that he thinks it’s more important for him to avoid a minor inconvenience than it is for you to avoid a major illness should tell you everything you need to know about his priorities. Furthermore, this is a guy whom you have to ask not to drink because he’s mean when he’s disinhibited, it shouldn’t be all that surprising that he doesn’t care about your needs.
Ouch. As a guy to make your birthday very special in many ways to feel shut down, will only be the highlight for him more than likely.
You don’t have to wear the jewelry. You can put it on display in the bedroom you can find something that’s decorative to put it on a nightstand next to the bed or on a dresser. I understand the money he spent on it and you’d like to get it back, but the sentimental value is where he was at, not the price.
If this ever happens again in the future, give it a few weeks before you reach out to the company for the return. I think if it was me, the most hurtful part would’ve been the immediate reaching out to return it.
I know something like this would make me feel in adequate and I would be very hesitant to do something special for quite some time. It’s not something is a trust issue but just plain out feeling hurt. The catch 22 is that it’s about him at this point even though it was your birthday gift. And it’s a really tough spot to be in.
I would give it some time, but make it clear S jewelry what’s the come up in the future you don’t mind knowing ahead of time, but would like to pick something out because of your preferences.
Don’t do it man. You made the right call. She spent a month doing what exactly?
I mean they are very early 20s. It’s possible he’s been with one girlfriend before OP, possibly a high school one who didn’t say anything because they just didn’t know any better. If he had other possibly short term relationships or ONS they may have just not said anything about it. Foreplay could be a very new thing to him that he got tired of doing and started making excuses for. Sounds to me like OP needs to be very upfront with BF and see where it leads, set hard boundaries and not allow them to be crossed. If they do get crossed OP needs to leave ASAP, a significant other should never feel okay with putting you in pain (unless you are into that), but he also does not know what she’s feeling if she doesn’t communicate it to him.
Assuming his actual behavior towards you hasn't changed, your insecurities are neither his fault nor his responsibility. Honestly you need to go to therapy or just get over it. I agree with him, partners are supposed to lift each other up. Your lack of confidence doesn't give you the right to pull him down. He's putting in the work to make these changes within himself. If you want change, you need to make an effort.
Do you have a job?
Leave her alone, like no contact. You don’t believe her and are victim blaming. The best thing for her is for you to get out of her life.
Just drop it. Don't respond, block her and move on