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Doesn't sound like she was much of a friend…. and why don't you just cut her off this time?
did he get you anything else?
I got my wife a stove top griddle but that's because she bent one of them. She also loves to cook. I also did get her several other thoughtful gifts lol
Cut context with him completely.
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Possibly, but she's still married to the guy over 30 years later, so even if it was a white-picket-fence checkmark marriage it worked for both of them.
should you continue? He calls you “fatty and elephant” – I think you already have the answer.
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Now we know why his ex is an ex.
Good on you for leaving. It was exactly the right thing to do. Zero tolerance when it comes to this type of crap.
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Sorry you’re going through it. On the plus side you weren’t married that long, just follow your attorneys advice to a T. I would stop responding to her and route all communication through attorneys or email.
This may well have been a spontaneous choice on her part, but in my experience women usually DO tell men what’s bothering them. Is it possible you weren’t listening or understanding the importance of what she was saying to you? Did you truly try to understand her point of view or just defend your own? You’ve already gone from “there were no reasons” to “well, we would fight…” I don’t know your relationship and j could be wrong, but I have a feeling if you really reflect you might have a better understanding.
Just get another job. These guys are so toxic. Don’t stir the pot by talking, just leave and let that speak for you.
Nothing you posted seemed dumb to me. It all plays into that flaky “meet the family, talk about future committments” then turn on a dime stuff. Pure flakiness.
The ghosting, that's just immaturity. Breaking up isn't pleasant and some people figure it's easier to just disappear. It's shit behaviour for sure, but sadly not uncommon.
Given the fact she ghosted you, it's a lucky break to not be in a relationship with someone who thinks that behaviour is acceptable.
You are right, but for now he’s not really compromising since we barely have any sex, he never initiate and when I do, it doesn’t lead to anything most times . I try to tell myself that, he’s a great guy and that he can compensate with other things ( his character, humour, things as such)
I had an ex do something like this too. He called me in the middle of the night from the roof of a parking garage, telling me he was going to jump off.
This might sound harsh, but I suspect your ex half-assed this suicide attempt to get himself into the hospital, get his mom in on the manipulation, and coerce you into taking him back. Common abuse tactic.
If you gave into this and took him back, it would teach him that this tactic works, and he’d do it again next time you leave him.
Please learn to respect yourself enough to dump any man who treats you like this. You deserve much better.
Yikes, Be Safe!
RUN!
Of course he knows. But the point that the other user is making is about being an active parent or not. It's an extreme example, but based on OPs reply, he get it and appreciates the perspective. So that's all that matters.
End the relationship. This won't last.
Brilliant and petty. But the lies.
She says that I’m not taking our relationship seriously because I don’t care about her opinion
since she doesn’t bring anything to the table ,financially speaking, I don’t think she should have any say in this
Just because she doesn't have a financial stake in the house doesn't mean she doesn't have a stake at all. Presumably (if you're as serious about the relationship as she is) you will eventually get married and on-line in that house for years to come, obviously she's going to have an opinion.
You're right that the final decision is ultimately yours, it's your money after all, but the fact that you're ignoring any input at all from your partner in a LTR is showing her that you either don't respect her opinion or you don't see the relationship lasting.
At the end of the day, you're both right. You shouldn't let your GF dictate a major financial decision that she isn't financially involved in, but the fact that you're making major life choices without any input from her at all does seem to indicate that you don't take the relationship seriously.
Greetings, fellow UK person.
You need legal advice, not relationship advice.
Say nothing, agree to nothing, etc. without talking to a family law solicitor first. Your solicitor will draw up a proposal and send it to her for agreement, with strong advice that she should seek independent legal advice before agreeing.
Yes, it'll cost you a few hundred quid, but a firm monthly figure will be established, as well as a binding agreement over residence of the child etc. (there is no such thing as 'custody' here in the UK). This will protect your access to your child in the future.
Seriously, do not try to do this without legal assistance.
OP, I think him saying he's wanting to work on himself was his nice way of rejecting you. I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for this guy to get back with you. You're better off finding someone else. Also, there is never a time you shouldn't be working on yourself. You can date around and improve yourself.
Personally, I would not feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone that was good friends with someone they were once in love with, if they were VERY in love and/or still have residual feelings- even if it's not crazy in love. It's complicated because either you're completely wrong and it's fine or you're setting yourself up from drama/toxicity/second place.
I don't believe two people are just friends even if only one has caught major feelings. The dynamic just isn't as truthful. The feelings are like an undercurrent and a lot of times the friend who was in love has this very romanticized version of the other friend, just because they have never been together- so they have all these projections. And you can never compete with that (nor should you have to).
I think the naked thing is that since it's only been a short time you don't really how they interact with each other. Sometimes these things are really blatant and sometimes it could take time to see how your partner responds to her.
Yeah. People don't just go to prison. People go to prison because they've done horrible things.
Give up. She's completely going to sense that you're still trying to get with her, on the sly. Waiting to pounce at a moment's notice or weakness.
If you want to break up with him that's your choice he has no say in the matter but if you're breaking up with him simply because you think you're doing him a favor then you're taking away his agency of choice and that's kind of fucked up.
If you don't want to date him don't go on-line your life exactly the way you want but he clearly wants to be with you. While that may be irrelevant to whether or not the relationship continues because that's up to you, don't act like you're doing him a favor because you're not
Good suggestion. Thanks.
Focus on friendships and hobbies, the rest will come with time. Also, try limit contact with her and don’t try to stay close friends, you need time to heal. Checking in once a month or so is fine if you want, but no “I miss you” or “I still love you” texts and no drunk texting/calls. Also, completely fine if you want to block her completely on everything to move on.
So your solution to not getting your way is to make the same legal threats that her ex made at her? Gee, I wonder why she's so insistent on her children having her last name…
Too late. He already thinks that. Future discussions will cement his feelings and may create resentment. IMO his behavior brings into question how serious he is about you. If he truly cares about you then his immediate response would be as you stated. You first then broken equipment. Maybe you could consider finding a new boyfriend that cares more about you than things. Be happy.
its just weird. she says 2 days isnt long enough for her to decide. but 2 days ago she was ever so certain she didnt want to be with me. Now i have to wait for her to make a decision. Im in pain and i want her support and love. I feel so regretful for the things i said. however everytime i text her she says that it makes me anxious and sad and makes her remember everything . She broke up with me over fucking facetime too. it just hurts man
He literally stole your cat. Honestly I’d get the cops involved. Also, I really hope you divorce your asshole of a husband. Seriously, fuck him.
Yes
Call the police it wasn’t his cat to give away. Get your cat back.
u r dum
Regardless of why he is how he is, it is affecting your relationship and your own mental health.
So end the relationship.
Wow you’re really really sexist