You’ve both probably changed so much since being teenagers and many of these changes probably happened when you were apart. You’re sort of strangers. You could bring up marriage counseling but it seems she’s made a decision. It might give the marriage closure though. Are you truly with her or just trying to save the marriage for the sake of marriage? Have you felt connected these past few years?
seal them in a small ziplock sandwich bag and take them home and dispose in your own garbage.
if you want to be extra careful, you can also take the drake approach and put in a small packet full of hot sauce inside the condom before you tie it off
Either she doesn’t consider you that close of a friend, or she is a bridezilla and cares more about all of her bridesmaid looking the similar than your friendship. Regardless, I would not say anything, but silently downgrade her to an acquaintance. Most weddings I’ve been to, the bridesmaids varied a lot in size from petite to plus, and I don’t think the bride even thought of that. A decent friend would not be that shallow.
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You’ve both probably changed so much since being teenagers and many of these changes probably happened when you were apart. You’re sort of strangers. You could bring up marriage counseling but it seems she’s made a decision. It might give the marriage closure though. Are you truly with her or just trying to save the marriage for the sake of marriage? Have you felt connected these past few years?
Put them in the garbage.
seal them in a small ziplock sandwich bag and take them home and dispose in your own garbage.
if you want to be extra careful, you can also take the drake approach and put in a small packet full of hot sauce inside the condom before you tie it off
Either she doesn’t consider you that close of a friend, or she is a bridezilla and cares more about all of her bridesmaid looking the similar than your friendship. Regardless, I would not say anything, but silently downgrade her to an acquaintance. Most weddings I’ve been to, the bridesmaids varied a lot in size from petite to plus, and I don’t think the bride even thought of that. A decent friend would not be that shallow.