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Get your parents to arrange it with the girls' parents. Let it be known you would take whichever is available.
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We've been together since high school, not married as young as 16 though. This subreddit just made put an age, and I don't think it matters too much here. We're both mid-thirties.
I didn't think it was too childish to answer about what I wanted. I've just given suggestions before and have no energy left to do the work for them at this point.
Your relationship doesn't sound that healthy if you two are not able to talk about these things. Why would you decline when she asked you?? Did you think it was a trick question or something?
Anyway talk to her again. Apologize for declining and day that you would like try to to spice things up between you two again and start brainstorming.
Since it’s the holidays, she might be around family and would prefer privacy when reading/answering your messages. I know when I was that age, reading a text from my crush would make me smile a specific way and have my parents/brothers/whoever making embarrassing comments to me. Perhaps she’s just trying to avoid something like that. Sounds like she’s into you, so I wouldn’t overthink it if you can help it 🙂
Move on, she already found someone.
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I’m commenting again to add that her issues are hers and you’re no saint by “having to deal with all these things no one understands” because it’s “so much”. Oh you are a SAINT! She’s a practical charity case! Do you HEAR YOURSELF?!?! You sound like a complete narcissistic jackass. I know narcissism gets thrown around a lot, but my god. You act like you’ve solved world hunger, cured cancer, and made mother Theresa look like the devils spawn. Delusions of grandeur much? Inflated ego much? Shifting blame to others because you can’t accept that you’d ever be wrong?
Listen pumpkin, I’ve got your number just like many here. Your woe is me act doesn’t land. This ain’t it. Nopeeee.
Damn, good points. I really dont think she is melecious. She just is stubborn and likes to have things her way. And i do somewhat agree but, how did you get that she can be entitled, dependent and guilt-trips?
Super fake
as if you were some thought ATM for him to withdraw from at will
Holy crap. This is exactly how it feels. This is a great metaphor and I’m going to be keeping it in my pocket.
Men aren't taught this the way we are, and they assume that if you're talking, you're doing so voluntarily, not out of obligation.
Wait, do you mean that men don’t understand or participate in polite acknowledgment? Like that “Oh, neat” ≠ “That’s the most interesting thing ever, please immediately tell me everything you know about it”?
he's obliviously chasing a lively debate on a topic that he finds fascinating, and he would like to discuss it… and couldn't be bothered to think about your side of it.
I think this is it, tbh.
Oh hun no. There’s a difference in ending a relationship if you aren’t happy and cheating.
Her cheating is a reflection of her character not yours dear. You stated she doesn’t take her meds and stopped going to therapy.
You tried your best efforts. Unfortunately if she the individual doesn’t want that help then that’s on her. She’s making those choices including walking out on the kids.
My mother always told me children are cuter when they aren’t yours and that if she could do it again she wouldn’t have kids. It hurt when I was small and left me with self esteem I struggle with today.
Kid’s can sense when a parent doesn’t want to be one. It’ll hurt either way if she’s in the picture or not. The only thing you can do is be there for them and show them they still have a father that loves them. Try to focus on what they need and if possible petition for child support.
I’m so sorry you’re going thru this. I only wish that thing get better for you and your children.
I understand that there definitely could have been the possibility it was an open relationship, but when Alan confronted his dad he admitted that it was because the sexual spark had died in their relationship and that she didn't know. Also, the screenshots definitely showed that he initially messaged her because she asked about camera settings in a comment on his post (again, he's definitely what I would call a “minor celebrity” in the field) and that he repeatedly steered the conversation towards sex even when she tried to steer it away. She definitely played some role in it, but I wouldn't say she encouraged or even really engaged with it as much he kept pushing.
I will say the 18 year old definitely makes me more uncomfortable than the 23 year old, but either way it doesn't really sit great with me. Also, I've been in poly and a variety of funky relationships, but communicating through that is definitely what I would say the difference is between having something different and cheating IMO.
I appreciate the response and alternative perspective for sure!
You deserve way better than this right off the bat.
You sound like the guy that thinks a girl loves you because she said “hi” one time when she sat next to you
There is no shame in admitting to yourself that perhaps a relationship has run it's course. Perhaps there are basic incompatibilities that have crept into your relationship over time, or perhaps because you two did get together rather early, you didn't notice them until age and life experiences made them apparent.
The only thing you can do is communicate how you are feeling (you probably already have), have a dialogue, and then determine if it is in both of your best interests to continue. She could have similar feelings to you, in terms of being on the same page, but it is simply difficult to have a “make or break” discussion. Even though you both know that it may be the healthiest thing to do.
You both deserve to be happy, ya know? You've only got one life to on-line, and giving into sunken cost fallacies doesn't do either one of you any favors.
I wish you the best of luck. I'm merely sharing the things that I wish I knew in my first very serious relationship.
Sounds like you just hate your father. Like look at hoe vindictive you get about the fact that you didn't get your college paid for, but your SISTER did. You had a father your whole life but you you are so petty that you want to hurt your sister and father just becuase she gets a little help?
You are coming off as a huge asshole. You should either decide if you want a relationship with your sister or not, and then other than that leave it alone becuase it's not about you.
Congratulations on your new step-child
Moving in 1 year is rushed IMO! You asked for our opinions/advice and that’s the way I see it others will give you different advice or opinions that you also won’t agree with or refuse to hear. Boy is this how you are with him? No wonder the flame died out.
It's important to have a partner who has good,solid familial relationships, but who also has clear boundaries and isn't beholden to their parents for all aspects of daily life.
If your relationship were to progress, and you were to marry, her influence will not end, instead you will end up in a marriage of 3, where your needs come last.
Consider that with another guy, you will (if you are careful, clear, and discerning) not have to compete with his mom, nor have a grown man kept as a lap dog by his mother.
What happened at the bar when you weren't dating shouldn't be the determining factor of if you two get back together or not…
Your friend took advantage of a blackout drunk (single!) person who happened to be your ex and they made out for a short while while she was not in a state to consent.
How does that have anything to do with whether or not you should be in a relationship with her?
yeah im a serial dater, i havent been single since i was like 13… and he is making me wish i was single. i know my relationship habits are unhealthy but oh my god i have never wished i was single before????
it sucks cuz he peed on me and sent a video of it to my friends and now i Have No Friends, so if i leave him i gotta start from Nothing…
There are different types of intelligence as you and your husband have discovered. You shouldn’t compare but appreciate the differences.
Ok listen. My current partner worked in the department next door to me in the supermarket we both worked at. I was married but low key had a crush on him since I started there. Anyway, I had a baby, moved states, left my husband, came back and asked for my job back, which my store manager graciously gave me, and……he was still there. A couple months after I got back there, I found out it was his birthday that day, so I whipped up a cake (baker, lol. He’s a butcher) and went out the front to the liquor store and bought him a nice bottle of Jim Beam (cos all guys like that nasty stuff, right?!) and I didn’t get a card so I just wrapped the receipt around the bottle (in case he wanted to exchange it) and wrote on the back something along the lines of Happy Birthday LOVE ❤️ (my name). When I gave it to him I saw tears in his eyes as he hugged me, which clued me in to just how lonely he really was. I then invited myself over 1 night to help him drink it (I hate bourbon, I just wanted an invite over, obviously lol). I still had to literally tell him I wanted to f*** him before he got the idea that I didn’t just want to be friends ?. Still makes me laugh thinking about that. Anyway, we’re 7 years in, turns out he’d been crushing on me too but knew I was married so never said anything. The point of my story (besides me just liking telling it) is that you’re going to have to be more blunt. Like, WAY more blunt. I flirted with him every damn time I saw him, asked him to do things for me I could EASILY do myself, he just…..wasn’t picking up what I was putting down ?. Anyway. I am so glad I got brave that day all those years ago, he’s the best partner ever and I love him so much. Oh, and that bottle of Jim Beam? He doesn’t drink, but won’t get rid of it because it was the start of our story ❤️
Clearly.
To announce a marriage two weeks before a wedding seems pretty fair. It's not the day of or day before Honestly your wife needs to accept that events happen, she didn't have a wedding year, it's a wedding day. A day to be the focus of attention and realistically yall were. I'd try to bring perspective to her but to be mad about this is pretty over the top.
And it seems she put money down too, she refinanced her house to do it, so it’s kind of her business too.
Yeah I’m not sure what the hierarchy of abuse is. But forcing parenthood on someone is certainly up there.
Man, asking in itself is a betrayal if you are in a monogamous relationship.
I literally came here to point out this exact thing. And it’s actually a very apt example for your fiancé OP, because it involves someone making a big performative show of rejecting an honour to make themselves look self-effacing, while actually continuing to be a huge asshole. So I guess your boyfriend was on the right track!
> send him the bill for new sheets.
Wow that's really shitty of you
ask yourself- Why do you want that information
He's not going to admit it, there is absolutely no way to prove it, so what's the point here? What is your goal?
That’s so cute lmfao
I do not have kids, so you are right that I lack that perspective. It does seem kind of wild with four shared kids in the mix, honestly
Yep. She's a homewrecker.
Go to the movies! It wouldn’t hurt to try it out and practice your Russian.
“I'm sorry, I thought you meant just as friends”
Get them sorted before you bring another boy home. Or move out and don’t introduce them until bf is deeply connected
I agree that he needs to set boundaries. But I don't know that a complete cut-off is necessary yet. If he can maintain a boundary that he's her friend but they won't talk about getting back together or her regret at how things worked out, then it should be fine for them to still be friends.
RUN. ???????