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You’re a young and easily manipulated side piece honey.
Back again, with a new sock puppet account are we?
Jesus Christ you've got some boundary issues.
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Send him a care package. His fave snacks, drinks, maybe a cool gadget, and a thoughtful note attached to let him know you're thinking of and there for him.
This is kind of how I feel to be honest. I've been in relationships with jealous pets that needless to say went out of their way to compete with attention from my partner. It reminds me a bit of the show Archer, and Mallory's affection to her late dog.
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Sounds like she was thinking about doing it for some time and then finally just blocked you on Christmas Eve. Some people will block you then unblock you right away and want to talk and work it out. Others will just never talk to you again. I don't know which will happen here. But, I bet not coming to see her on her birthday hurt her and made her wonder if you really cared at all. Long distance is hot, and she may be one of those women who needs quality time in person. When you wouldn't take off work, you may have made her feel unimportant. But, since she didn't communicate that, you thought everything was fine. Here's one thing. If a gf starts acting strange, as in not texting you when she normally would, something is wrong. You didn't pick up on that, and I bet that hurt her feelings more. You brushed it off as her being busy instead of asking her what was wrong. In her mind, you simply do not care about her as much as she cared about you.
Sounds like he may be suffering from depression and need to see a therapist AND a psychiatrist ASAP. Don’t enable this to go untreated.
Sounds like he may be suffering from depression and need to see a therapist AND a psychiatrist ASAP. Don’t enable this to go untreated.
What the fuck?
??? oh man, now that's a great way to handle the situation.
So ehat do you think?
I'm sure it's been equally a shock for him to find out just s much as for you. But what is your actual issue? . Many people are with partners who have children from previous relationships and deal with it just fine.
You’re a good friend.
Ah, well. If he specifically said he doesn’t want you to come that’s a different story. You’re only 6 months in. Honestly, with the combination of him saying things like that and when you don’t get your way, your first thought is “revenge”, I would say this relationship isn’t worth your time.
Great advice! You’re absolutely right, problem is yes if he’s not at the bar, he’s drinking here with his friends I do not get along with his friends because they disrespect their wives and I hear them talk shit about their wives/girlfriends/baby mamas well let me put it in better terms, the mother of their children. This hurts my feelings because I think a lot of times that people you surround yourself around are the people you end up acting like I could be wrong but yes, we do try and find common ground and he doesn’t treat me like some men treat their wives or girlfriends he doesn’t call me names or stuff like that and I respect that I just wish he like to take adventures with me but yeah, I have a friend that will walk with me, but most of them say they don’t have money to travel and I understand that. But great advice, and I love the realness in your comment.
There's no humbling lesson for me here. OP mentioned no fears about her husband's bizarre potentially predatory behaviours. Me and sever others pointed it out
An hour long ride isn’t that taxing for two kids.
I’m sure she is but she definitely shouldn’t try to take over as mom
Thank you for your comment! But I think you might’ve misread my post. He isn’t having suicidal ideation, I was saying that he told me that “staying inside doesn’t make [him] want to k!ll [himself]”, as in he’s fine with staying home and not going anywhere unlike me. He said this after I expressed how I need to get out sometimes to help with my mental health.
But yes, you aren’t wrong that he is an introvert. I appreciate your comment
It's never a good idea to maintain a sexual relationship with an ex. One has to be almost a robot to navigate that without getting their feelings hurt. Speaking frankly, you're a female in your 20's, meaning your sexual options are nearly endless. Maybe go create “magic” with someone who isn't bringing this much emotional baggage to the table.
It's always a compromise to save the day. How about this month, you make your trade, and instead of$200 going to savings, this month it goes to your wife? I have learned that in a marriage, you can be right, or you can be happy. You BOTH deserve a break, so make sure your BOTH have one. It's very easy to overlook the strain on each other. Just treat yourselves, and be done with this. Maybe she doesn't have a hobby because of expenses, and that's why she's upset. It could be perceived that she is sacrificing more than you, by not getting any relief from the money crunch, the way you are. Good luck!
Don't worry and just take more chores at home to compensate. … More seriously, are you worried because you don't fulfill the traditional role of the MAN of the house? Gender stereotypes are bullshits. Once you will be over your outdated values, you will feel better. And do you really want to jeopardize your mariage because she earns more? Or perhaps she belittles you in a real way beside her income? If so, focus on this issue but 'we have too much money' is not an issue…
His manager's gay and my boyfriend's kinda super horny for girls (not the issue at hand tho) so even tho the thought that his manager likes him crossed my mind, I doubt my boyfriend's attracted to him so I really don't know what to think.
You seem to want to fix things but I wouldn't bank on him wanting the same thing. Especially if he's broken your trust more than once.
Haha whenever my bf smells, I just tell him: “dude, go take a shower, you stink.” XD. Not very subtle.
But then again, he smells pretty good on a day to day basis, it's more that he'll stink after a hot day's work, he used to be an airplane mechanic, so he'd smell like fuel and sweat. He never got insulted, because he knew where the smell came from. He just started a desk job this month, so I'm curious to see where this goes XD
Talking about the past keeps it alive. It’s like going to the cemetery to exhume the long dead skeletons of the defunct problem ridden past. No, should just make plans to take you wife to a nice restaurant on the night in question to further confirm her decision not to meet weirdos willing to pay her.
So, that question is a fiancée level question. He is looking at a possible future with you and is worried his hot work time will be too much and you might not be there. It shows his vulnerability.
Definitely tell him you have been dwelling on that question and want to know what you can do to support him.
I'd also recommend getting the book “5 Love Languages” and working through it with him so you both understand how the other sees love. Just doing that shows a level of commitment and serious thought toward the relationship. It will give you insights into him so you can let him feel your love in a way he can understand.
I’d dump anyone who discussed my genitals among their friends, in a flattering way or not. Outrageous. What she did is beyond inexcusable. Comparing you unfavorably to other partners, just all of it.
If you’re so awful, why is she with you?
Let me rephrase that—she is awful, and you should not be with her.
Why aren’t you angry at this violation of your privacy? Or of their ridiculing your size? She’s an awful person. What she has done cannot be undone or fixed.
Please find a better partner.
You’re an idiot and clearly in the wrong here. Get used to having an ex-boyfriend
RUN!! He won't get any better
That’s essentially what I tried to tell her. She’s been doing a tremendous amount of work on herself since we’ve been in a relationship and she’s doing her best. It’s hot for her to find the time to go to therapy and in her experience it’s been extremely emotionally draining for her.
I will add to what you said earlier regarding the “cracked vase”. There have been times in our relationship where we’ve hurt each other. None as grand as this but we’ve always come through as a team. She’s said previously that making it out of those situations together says a lot more about the strength of our relationship than any hurt we caused each other to put ourselves in that situation initially.
I have been somewhat optimistic regarding what has happened just because sometimes things will feel normal between us and good again. Tonight though she sounded particularly drained after we talked about it again for the first time at length in probably about a week. It’s been the first time I’ve thought that breaking up would be the only way for her to fully move past this. I’ll be honest the only reason I made this post was out of desperation because I’m afraid of losing her. I’m going to talk to her tomorrow and probably tell her about the post I made and what you said. I sincerely appreciate everything you’ve told me so far. Thank you so much.
Break out with your GF as she deserves better than you….
They are going after me and shaming me.
First have a conversation with him, what you heard was not direct information. Don’t draw conclusions until you have a conversation with your boyfriend.
Run. Run fast. Run far.
Remember that we all told you this in a year. 5 years. Ten.
So you’ve never lived in a college dorm that is not a single person unit? Ok. That’s fair.
When I moved to the US as a grad student, I shared a room with someone who had a queen sized bed and I slept in a sleeping bag on the floor on top of the vent no less. It happens. It’s not as uncommon as you might think it is. Monies are hot to make.
Maybe it’s because you’re 40, but our generation doesn’t believe that man and woman should be treated different relationship wise.
People should have a degree of pride and self respect. Invalidating someone’s rightful anger with “well hurr durr I’m older” rubs me the wrong way.
Your original advice was:
Lie to her and pretend she didn't hurt you.
Ask if you can still be friends.
It's shit advice mate and is not what you're saying now.
Did the other friend do coke? What’d he have to say?
Being sweaty and antsy and his quick jump to anger does not scream allergies it scream cocaine.
If it was just allergies, why wouldn’t he have said that? Why did his brother have to tell you that the next day?
Also, idk how long y’all have been together but if he had severe allergies you would’ve known before then.
My boyfriend has allergies and is constantly sniffling/blowing his nose. He never gets sweaty and antsy when his allergies flare up.
There's going to be a power dynamic in this relationship. Some people prefer having a younger and inexperienced partner they can mold to their desires preferable. Just be careful and don't have any unrealistic expectations.
It could be a good chance for you to get some experience and have some fun on the side. But anything more than that is probably asking for trouble. Just remember you can say no and walk away at any point.
You need to speak to a therapist. It's possible that you are confusing the unresolved pain of losing a loved one up with a need to protect yourself from it ever happening again. This is a dead end path. You have a woman that loves you and will help you through it. Don't throw it away because you are scared of future pain. A therapist will help you address your father's loss. Imo, that's the real issue here.
So women's day and men's day is a gift thing? It's not a big deal here, more like a note on the calendar, like international chocolate day, which I find a little more important… She's gaslighting you, telling you what you were thinking so she could victimize herself. She sounds too immature and manipulative to be dating.
Best quote I'd ever seen was about this topic was “why date a gamer if you aren't okay with them playing games?” Just leave her, dude. You playing any amount of video games will never be enough.
Meh. Yep, poor judgment and low maturity. But he didn't cheat, and no one was injured. Just a very bad decision that he will surely regret (I'm betting he does already). Sometimes our spouses behave in incredibly thoughtless and idiotic ways. In sickness and in health, and all that.
I luckily online in a country that has taken a much more equal stance, where going Dutch is the norm
Also being with my boyfriend has made me a better person. He encourages me to study and follow my goals, and we both make time for our friend sand keep our lives separated.
IDK that seems really healthy to me. It seems your roommate is jealous, it could be because you are spending less time with her or because you have a successful relationship and she doesn't.
To be frank, you want someone that roots for you when good things happen to you and she doesn't seem to be like that.