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Date: December 23, 2022
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I’m sorry my friend, but this relationship is not going to work out.
Personally I think it’s a bit shitty that this would be a deal breaker for him, but it sounds like it might be. You should not agree to anything you aren’t comfortable with, and unfortunately that means this is probably not the relationship for you.
You are taking care of this woman and her two kids and still she doesn’t have the basic fucking decency to not cheat on you
This woman is for the streets, return her to where you found her.
You need some self respect my dude
A house can be sold, debts can be paid, but the price of your dignity is priceless.
So true! We are a big, complicated mess of flaws and imperfections, some of which make us who we are and ought not be so quickly judged or belittled.
None of us are perfect!
Idk if this is fake or not but the first thing I would do is ask your husband to get you into see the best gynecologist you can find and tell them about the painful sex and see if there's any test they can run about that. Having children and letting your body growing up can be a game changer for you. I would also look into basic sex education live when you get a moment if you haven't. You obviously weren't aroused when you had sex for the first times did you guys use lube? If you're having trouble with pain and have unbearable periods even without having sex look into endometriosis. There is just so much to explain your pain for the first times. Also pain the first couple sometimes you have sex is completely normal however you describe such excruciating pain that you really need to go see a doctor to see if it's something more or if it's just because your body and mind was not at all ready for sex yet.
Second your husband sounds so accommodating you can ask him to first get an STD test and then ask him if he's willing to slowly start experimenting with sexual things. No penis in vagina sex but start with light touching and making out. I know it's emotionally painful but the fact that he has more sexual experience will probably help now that he knows what he's doing. You could also start using the Friday nights he's gone with experimenting with masturbation. Also there is a lot of men married in committed relationships that have wives with hard limits on some of the things the husband used to like to do with other women and they are just fine going the rest of their lives never doing a lot of those things again. But baby steps. You never know if you'll like any of those things if you don't start somewhere and you might be fully asexual.
If that happens to be the case, and you still want to remain married, and you still want him to be able to “be satisfied”, you'll need to work on your jealousy or you can work on detaching from him. The only other options I see are you tolerating all of this and remaining and paying every time he leaves to go get his needs filled or you getting a divorce and co-parenting amicably.
Get therapy with a sex positive therapist NOT a religious one. There are actual sex therapists out in the world (I just don't know how to find them) that could lead you better down this path. Doing couples therapy would probably help a lot at some too.
Finally if you know in your heart you're not going to leave, him tell him you love him. Because otherwise he's going to go through this whole life without knowing you love him and that he is loved. Being in love is giving somebody the ability to break your heart and trusting them not to. Love isn't all rainbows and Sunshine Love is heartbreak and working through things and communication.
I am going to wish you the bestest of luck. And if this was fake it was a very entertaining read.
Your bf is full of shit, and it seems like you already know that. Dont try to live in denial.
Get help.. that's not funny and you suck as a person
Because I don't understand why you had a child with a person who acts like a child themself and I'm trying to understand the timeline of how long you have actually known him. Either you knew him for 3-4 months or it's possible you knew him for over a year and chose to raise a baby with him.
He's a child. You shouldn't be with him. But if you have a baby together then that means there has to be something worked out here.