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SICILIYA Public Chat Channel
Date: December 21, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
SICILIYA Public Chat Channel
Don’t get this woman pregnant. Better yet, get a divorce. Children have no business getting married.
You are stupid. No other day matters. The day in question is the day that matters.
I've tried. I was very explicit with my brother, and he more or less admitted that he's just too angry with my wife to listen to me… and when I called him out again on just talking over me and not listening, when I'd asked him very specifically to just listen, he's stopped texting me for now. Which he just fractured his ankle so I know he's got his own stuff going on so I'm not terribly worried that he's intentionally ignoring me because of this, but I do think that with his own life happening, he decided that putting in the effort to be quiet and listen to me was too much for right now, and didn't communicate that, and it sucks.
My mother is useless, lol, and my parents both refused to support me during my first divorce. My dad had offered to pay money for me and my ex to stay together, but refused that same money when I asked if he'd be willing to put it towards legal fees instead…
So yeah. I'm stuck with a bunch of people who, even when I tell them that I understand the risks and the feelings and I have the feelings-I'm not not angry, I'm just not only angry-that they still feel the need to tell me that I'm doing it wrong and here's how I should actually do it.
I do have my old trauma therapist who I worked with for years with intense trauma therapy, including EMDR, for CPTSD & PTSD. I've been out for a little bit because I've got a solid handle on everything now, but I can always get back in with him when I need to. The fact that I have about six years of therapy under my belt at this point is part of the reason why/how I'm willing to stay. I worked hot to become the person I am, and learn the tools that I have to navigate difficulties and make decisions, and work through big and painful feelings…
And yet, even the people who know me, and know this about me, are being horribly unhelpful because they would act differently, and probably in part because they don't have the therapy experience and tools to handle their own big and painful feelings about it. I just hate that their feelings about my situation are getting put on me.
My divorce with my ex was kinda expected. It was a slow burn. Shouldn't have married a man- x.x Also shouldn't have gotten married at like, 19… But point being none of them should be comparing these situations because they're very different and they know that.
I am upset with her. But he was the one leading her into this so I put the majority of the blame on him. She apologized and we are going to try to find a way to get the pictures from him and then end the friendship.
Seriously. A 28 YO knows better. Hell I'm 24 and even I know how pregnancies and miscarriages work.
Could it be a joke , did he tell them you made him delete/unfollow nudes? They could just be spaming him random nudes to get him in trouble because he told them you didn't like him to have them.