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lush in | i have toys [162 tokens remaining]
Date: December 18, 2022
AmateurPub
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Adults communicate using words that express their thoughts and emotions. You'll learn this one day.
Can you explain what you mean by unnecessary gossip and drama?
Also, are you truly okay with him believing that if you're alone with a guy, you might cheat on him? Do you really believe that if he was alone with another woman, he would cheat on you?
What would happen if you were to date a bi guy? He can't ever hang out with any person alone?
I might be making too many assumptions here, but it seems like you could be distrusting of his love (and thereby, committement) to you because you don't love yourself, so you can't believe anyone else would because “why would they?”.
Similarly, he seems to under the impression that, given the chance, all women will cheat and can't be trusted. Does that not hurt you? That he just outright believes any and all women are at risk of cheating because he happened to date someone that was a bad person and did that to him? Its very immature to use the actions of one person to extrapolate and assume that all similar people will act the same way.
I left an abusive alcoholic after ten years. It was heartbreaking but you have to put yourself first. You can’t wait for the day they finally get their shit together cause it may never come. No more promises or swearing things will get better, no more second or third chances, or compromises. You have to focus on you. I understand you care and love him but that can also carry a heavy toll. Don’t let it destroy you too.
Unfortunately, no, it's over, there's no coming back, because she doesn't want your relationship to work at all. Not even one little bit, no, she's not involved in the relationship with you at all and you can't change that. Divorce is your only option and document everything she's doing and get witnesses as well, to fight for custody of your child. You do not want your child to grow up in this unhealthy environment, and this terrible model of relationships. For relationships to work, communication is key, it's the first step. Your wife is absolutely refusing to do the first step in fixing your relationship and this won't magically change, it will only get worse because she doesn't want to make it better, and in the meantime, you will be more hurt and your child is at a huge risk of developing permanent trauma if the situation continues (like internalizing blame or thinking mommy is angry at him because he exists)