Unless you are in the UK. That sounds like a normal night out for most people tbh. I don't drink much, maybe 3 or 4 drinks a year, but I would go very hot in my late teens. Binge drinking is a massive problem here, but not everyone who binges on occasion is an alcoholic.
I understand you needed to vent. It's a normal reaction. But you should think about who you're venting to. Parents are usually way too emotionally involved and telling them the details of your relationship troubles, while you're not 100% sure what you're going to do, might turn against you. I'm not talking about this particular situation so much (since you seem to think about breaking up anyway) as about the future relationship troubles you might have. Imagine you have a husband in the future, you're having some troubles with him, you talk about all the details with your parents. Your parents think he did you wrong. You ultimately decide you can work on it with your husband and you want to pursue the relationship. Your parents think your decision isn't the right one and that your husband is a douche. Now you feel uncomfortable knowing what your parents think while your husband feels even more uncomfortable knowing your parents know about your intimate stuff and think less of him. Those kind of scenarios may create an unnecessary pressure on the relationship you may want to pursue and that's already destabilized by a particular issue. It tends to be easier with close friends in my experience. Even though I personally think a therapist is the best way to go.
Unless you are in the UK. That sounds like a normal night out for most people tbh. I don't drink much, maybe 3 or 4 drinks a year, but I would go very hot in my late teens. Binge drinking is a massive problem here, but not everyone who binges on occasion is an alcoholic.
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I agree with this. You can't speed up therapy. Slow the hell down, stop moving random men in, learn to love yourself.
the quantity is not important, most important is than she did it again and again.
I understand you needed to vent. It's a normal reaction. But you should think about who you're venting to. Parents are usually way too emotionally involved and telling them the details of your relationship troubles, while you're not 100% sure what you're going to do, might turn against you. I'm not talking about this particular situation so much (since you seem to think about breaking up anyway) as about the future relationship troubles you might have. Imagine you have a husband in the future, you're having some troubles with him, you talk about all the details with your parents. Your parents think he did you wrong. You ultimately decide you can work on it with your husband and you want to pursue the relationship. Your parents think your decision isn't the right one and that your husband is a douche. Now you feel uncomfortable knowing what your parents think while your husband feels even more uncomfortable knowing your parents know about your intimate stuff and think less of him. Those kind of scenarios may create an unnecessary pressure on the relationship you may want to pursue and that's already destabilized by a particular issue. It tends to be easier with close friends in my experience. Even though I personally think a therapist is the best way to go.
Did I say therapy for a month makes for a health emotional recovery? No, I did not I simply said I started therapy to work on my issues.
Thanks!