I agree with this. I was with my BF for 2years he said we was a couple ect. Yet still after 2years I only seen him once a week sometimes not even that . I'd never meet his son , friends or any family members. If I'd try have talk about things he'd say I was on one or getting on at him or just sit there making out can't hear me . I said he was weird on the phone as he said he'd wrote something I said down few weeks ago so he didn't forget and it wasn't something like what you'd think it was something could try use against me . That was over a month ago now, and he want even talk to me at all . So think that shows how little i meant to him . It's OK if you just want a casual relationship but you need to let the other person know this as well . Don't just never mention it and make them think things are normal. That's just wasting the other person's life and its not fair
Even if you get back together with her, you'll never be happy. You are not comfortable with a poly relationship and it's okay, it's fine. You don't need to force yourself to be in such a relationship when it clearly troubles you.
Secondly, I do think you're her safe option. She loses her safety net if you move out. You've totally changed yourself for her sake, she's still uncomfortable with you for doing PDA, and wants to spend rest of her life with you????? Red Flag!??
Yeah, you keep saying this. My husband had/ has a lot of women friends too, especially when we started dating. Turned out great for me, bc it turned out we had a lot in common, and I made a lot of new friends. He likes a lot of my guy friends too, so win- our circle of friends got bigger. Why is everything a competition?
I agree with this. I was with my BF for 2years he said we was a couple ect. Yet still after 2years I only seen him once a week sometimes not even that . I'd never meet his son , friends or any family members. If I'd try have talk about things he'd say I was on one or getting on at him or just sit there making out can't hear me . I said he was weird on the phone as he said he'd wrote something I said down few weeks ago so he didn't forget and it wasn't something like what you'd think it was something could try use against me . That was over a month ago now, and he want even talk to me at all . So think that shows how little i meant to him . It's OK if you just want a casual relationship but you need to let the other person know this as well . Don't just never mention it and make them think things are normal. That's just wasting the other person's life and its not fair
That's her prerogative
Even if you get back together with her, you'll never be happy. You are not comfortable with a poly relationship and it's okay, it's fine. You don't need to force yourself to be in such a relationship when it clearly troubles you.
Secondly, I do think you're her safe option. She loses her safety net if you move out. You've totally changed yourself for her sake, she's still uncomfortable with you for doing PDA, and wants to spend rest of her life with you????? Red Flag!??
Yeah, OP seems too full of herself to observe the signs.
Yeah, you keep saying this. My husband had/ has a lot of women friends too, especially when we started dating. Turned out great for me, bc it turned out we had a lot in common, and I made a lot of new friends. He likes a lot of my guy friends too, so win- our circle of friends got bigger. Why is everything a competition?
I havent worked out in a long time and i use to all the time so you could be onto something here.