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Why do people proceed to blend families of 25 children + grandchildren each and THEN wonder about duties arrangement?
It doesn't matter on how much time you've been together.
I will simply state that she wants you to get a vasectomy, right. I trust she's also willing to get her tubes tied?
Or in the words of people from before us:
WHATS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER?
If she doesn't agree your relationship is?
I'm not a fan of messing with bodies to please the other partner, especially when you're so young .
It doesn't matter on how much time you've been together.
I will simply state that she wants you to get a vasectomy, right. I trust she's also willing to get her tubes tied?
Or in the words of people from before us:
WHATS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER?
If she doesn't agree your relationship is?
I'm not a fan of messing with bodies to please the other partner, especially when you're so young .
make many black out and fight back
You have some stats on this? I don't see how blacking out is a common response at all, unless trauma is that common amongst people… I really think the person best equipped to defend others is in command of themselves in the moment, a black out is dangerous for everybody.
You again? Didn't you post almost the exact same thing last week?
You should find a new therapist and work on whatever it is that has you feeling like this.
He was making fun of her! She definitely sounds depressed!! She needs help not for her husband to mock her. Contempt in relationships are the most toxic thing and he sounds full of it. I’m not saying what she is doing it right but I’m sure she feels stuck.
Express your feelings and worries to her, but don't guilt her into not talking to others anymore. Try to find the root of the lack of connection from her and how you two can fix it.
The fear is often created due to past cheating in relationships. It may help to process a past experience with a therapist or by journaling about how you felt and how it has affected you.
Other times it is projection of an own willing or ability to cheat. In this case it would be good to recognise that it is a projection and find out how to stop projecting.
It can also stem from insecurity. In this case it may help to write down your strengths, things you like about yourself, and read them out daily. Or try to notice your strengths and positive traits throughout the day. A therapist can also help with this a lot.
A few things that may help in general are Radical Acceptance (DBT skill) of the fact that you don't know what is going on, Cognitive Reframing (CBT skill) of the idea that she might cheat and Journaling your emotions.
He was probably with his wife and didn't want to talk about it.
Every relationship goes through the “honeymoon phase”: everything is new and exciting and interesting about the other person. You want to spend every waking moment talking to them or thinking about them or being intimate. But it doesn't last forever.
Humans aren't really hardwired to be OBSESSED forever. The hormones associated with a new partner fade, and you get settled in to the next phase of the relationship: regular life together.
From his point of view, your anxiety and need for reassurance was something that needed care and attention. Subconsciously though, he thought he would “fix” you, show you how deep and true his love was and that would be that, you'd “get it”.
But your brain is sick from depression, and that can't be “fixed” like this.
Now that the honeymoon phase has faded, he's seeing all the time and effort he put into reassuring you that he really, really loves you, and seeing you still needing that reassurance… and he's, frankly, tired.
It's not your fault. You're sick. Your brain doesn't work correctly. But he's feeling some caregiver's fatigue from it nonetheless.
As to your actual question: If you want everything to just go back to how it was during the honeymoon phase, it won't. Young love is a unique thing, it doesn't last forever. Love matures into something else, something different.
You two need a serious, grown-up conversation about what you want out of the relationship. You need to be prepared to hear him out, validate his feelings, and make compromises. He needs to be understanding of your illness and committed to helping you combat it, even when it's hot or inconvenient for him.
It's not going to be easy, but with patience and understanding it can be done. I've been with my high-school girlfriend for 16 years now, married for 6. It's not impossible.
Are you forcing yourself to have sex when you don't want to? Is it even enjoyable to you? And have you considered that you might be asexual?