Gonna be honest here, I think most of the people here are way overreacting. You have a few unhealthy thought processes, but you’re well aware of them. I don’t think saying you have a personality disorder or that you need therapy is right. I’ve had a workplace crush before, and the best thing I found was to think of another coworker that I don’t have a crush on, and try my best to treat my crush exactly the same as the other coworker. It was effective until we started hanging out outside of work but that’s a totally different story.
My short answer is no, I have no “proof” other than her words and a pregnancy test she showed me. Later she had troubles with food and being morning sick etc.
She comes from a conservative family so I didn't doubt her because why would she risk her relationship with her family if she lied? How would she be sure I would propose?
You are not a customizable doll. You’re right to not speak right now, and trying to work through things with him sounds exhausting and like a moot point. I don’t see anything worth salvaging here – what happens when you disagree on something like division of childcare? Him caring so little about your self esteem is bad enough in and of itself. Listen to your gut.
How can you advocate for Abortion at 34 weeks in this case! That’s just murder 🙁 Even 24 weeks it crazy
He probably doesn't want to be the guy setting up boundaries his wife should be setting up. If she won't then he should rethink the marriage imo.
Gonna be honest here, I think most of the people here are way overreacting. You have a few unhealthy thought processes, but you’re well aware of them. I don’t think saying you have a personality disorder or that you need therapy is right. I’ve had a workplace crush before, and the best thing I found was to think of another coworker that I don’t have a crush on, and try my best to treat my crush exactly the same as the other coworker. It was effective until we started hanging out outside of work but that’s a totally different story.
Yes, but it seems like OP is pissed at the guard, which is bizarre.
My short answer is no, I have no “proof” other than her words and a pregnancy test she showed me. Later she had troubles with food and being morning sick etc.
She comes from a conservative family so I didn't doubt her because why would she risk her relationship with her family if she lied? How would she be sure I would propose?
You are not a customizable doll. You’re right to not speak right now, and trying to work through things with him sounds exhausting and like a moot point. I don’t see anything worth salvaging here – what happens when you disagree on something like division of childcare? Him caring so little about your self esteem is bad enough in and of itself. Listen to your gut.