This is the most intelligent response I've ever had on reddit. I also appreciate you not assuming the worst like I usually receive from others whenever I post a question or discussion on reddit.
So in all truth, yes, I do have the time to find someone and date them. That is, whenever I get back home on vacation or my small boughts of time off. I guess the problem I have is whenever I get to that point, I will be away from my gf for extended periods of time and I believe that wont be conducive for a lasting relationship.
I could change careers but that would mean abandoning my family business. I have a loyalty there and a crucial part for its success. That royalty would surely be there for a relationship as well. But I could change careers but the uncertainty and unknown to do so discourages me.
I wouldn't be homeless. I am wrong there. Hyperbole or just plain wrong.
Yeah I agree with all this. I’d add that she should pay for the tests. Hell, if you do couples therapy (note: divorce or staying together, you should do it, it will help your mental health and you do a better gameplan for your future), and she should pay for that, too. She caused the damage, she should get the bill.
What did you decide to do? Will you finally break up with her and stay broken up with her? You keep going back to her, too, so this is a problem that both of you are perpetuating at this point. Break this cycle and end the relationship permanently.
This is the most intelligent response I've ever had on reddit. I also appreciate you not assuming the worst like I usually receive from others whenever I post a question or discussion on reddit.
So in all truth, yes, I do have the time to find someone and date them. That is, whenever I get back home on vacation or my small boughts of time off. I guess the problem I have is whenever I get to that point, I will be away from my gf for extended periods of time and I believe that wont be conducive for a lasting relationship.
I could change careers but that would mean abandoning my family business. I have a loyalty there and a crucial part for its success. That royalty would surely be there for a relationship as well. But I could change careers but the uncertainty and unknown to do so discourages me.
I wouldn't be homeless. I am wrong there. Hyperbole or just plain wrong.
Yeah I agree with all this. I’d add that she should pay for the tests. Hell, if you do couples therapy (note: divorce or staying together, you should do it, it will help your mental health and you do a better gameplan for your future), and she should pay for that, too. She caused the damage, she should get the bill.
What did you decide to do? Will you finally break up with her and stay broken up with her? You keep going back to her, too, so this is a problem that both of you are perpetuating at this point. Break this cycle and end the relationship permanently.