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Date: December 12, 2022
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it’s hurting me horribly knowing that i will never be good enough for him
Babe, whoever this guy is – he is not worth it. you are more than enough. work on loving yourself – you will then have someone loving you with all his heart as well.
This is so similar to the dynamic between my partner & I that i could almost have written it myself. I am strong-willed, independent & less tolerant of BS. I don’t like conflict, but I won’t back away from it to “keep the peace”. I know how to articulate my thoughts & emotions.
My partner is more of a people-pleaser, and avoids standing up for himself to keep the peace. With his friends, he is easily influenced, and doesn’t stand up for himself because he doesn’t like confrontation. And he struggles to express himself.
It’s a struggle. When we have a problem I feel like I am steam-rolling him because while I can explain how I feel, he refuses to even admit that there is an issue because he is so scared of upsetting me.
But we are learning from each other. We have had some tough conversations & I can see a change, he is getting more confident in expressing how he feels. And he isn’t scared to be honest, even if I get upset because he knows I’m not going to leave him. I work hard to make sure that he knows I am a “safe space” for him to express himself.
He is softening my rough edges so to speak, and I think that he starting to develop some slightly sharper ones.
He will never be the “tough” one in the relationship, and I will never be the “soft” one (not sure if I like those words), and that’s ok.
Jesus, I wonder how someone can be so self righteous as they pen these gems of “wisdom”
Writing some porn fiction with rape & misogyny in and of itself isn't an automatic red flag.
…get off your high horse. He has probably dabbled in viewing/reading rougher porn, and you shouldn't be making him feel like shit for it.
If you want your boyfriend of 2 years to feel pressured & lie to you because he's scared you're thinking less of him, you're doing everything perfectly then.
OP is treating her partner “like shit” by being concerned about violent rapey fantasies he had and wrote down. How dare she think less of him for that! Now he's gonna have to lie to her and it's all HER FAULT!
Updateme!
Telling your high school gf “I love you”. SoOoOo mature ?
It’s actually a fact that people who swear more have lower IQ. And I never once said that MY goal is attainable for everyone … now you’re just telling lies and throwing insults because you’re losing an argument to a 23 year old.
Happy people don’t bash other people, I’m sorry you have this pain inside of you & hope learn how to manage your ego.
This is my last comment
She wants what she's never gonna have again, and she's willing to toss family away for a booty call. That's all he sees her as, she should be better than this.