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Yes. And any time that I believed that that person could be at risk of harming themselves, I’d have much preferred them to be in the presence or a professional than in the presence of anyone who either does not know how to help or is not able to be there 24/7.
Since OP and her husband cannot be there for Sister at all times, and there’s no way for them to know exactly when sister would need them, this is not a logical solution. Sister needs to have a source of help that will be available at any time she should need it.
You don't. He does. His kids would.
He's doing what he thinks is best for his kids. If you can't handle that, then you need to reconsider your relationship. He's not going to put your feelings ahead of being the parent he needs and wants to be.
that's how grooming works, hon. nothing sexual happens at first. I am 22 years old. I feel physical repulsion at the idea of sleeping with a 17 year old, the same age gap as you two. I cannot stress enough how much she is absolutely taking advantage of you, and manipulating you with this ultimatum.
Gaslighting has to be intentional though or?
Nice one!
There is no advice to give you. The ball is in her court. I can't believe people are so fragile about porn, and sorry you are going through this. Good luck ?
Exactly. What’s the issue, sounds like a normal bonding session between two brothers.
I hope i didnt panic you too much because it's not a for sure cause, but I really think it's important to do so just incase. I wish the best to both of you!
Disclaimer: he sounds like a jerk if he’s dismissing your feelings like that.
That said, you could give him a taste of his own medicine. Make “jokes” about him and if he gets offended, tell him it’s “just a joke.”
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That would depend on your personal health/family history. Again, something none of us are equipped to answer, only your physician/OBGYN.
I’ve only seen one other person mention he was 56 when he had her. No wonder his sense of family is all warped. He was probably barely even a father at that age.
You know sweetie, I really do not wish to meet your former wank partner while on OUR honeymoon…maybe another time. But we can certainly face time her a quick hello on the laptop at the hotel.
Hell, no.
If she not doing it now, it’s because she doesn’t want to and doesn’t like it. It will not change. Even if she put in an effort and tried for you, that’s not what you want. A begrudging reciprocation. My advice, yes talk about it. But be prepared. If you stay together, very little chance you ever part take in that act again.
Yeah she may get a very good price, i have never seen her haggle but she is very used to dealing with car dealerships where you would very rarely get the chance to haggle. where as i am used to buying cars privately which always leaves room to haggle and not just cars i do quite alot of buying/selling everything. Thanks for your input, i think its best if i back even though i know it means my gf will end up with a not so great car and i will feel bad if she does cause i will know i could of helped.
Your girlfriend is immature and/or looking for a reason to leave you.
He's a cheater and a pathetic one at that. Don't marry him. I predict his now unemployed ass will sit around your house while you support him and make the merest token effort to find a new job. So then he'll be a pathetic, cheating hobosexual. You can do better…eceb alone is better than being with that.
He didn't waste the year on you, it would appear you wasted the year on him. What kind of person does that!?!?! Sounds like he has major issues he needs to work out, you do not need to be living your life with that kind of hateful energy around
He's a deadbeat . Why do you allow this behavior ? Kick his sorry butt out .
If we are talking about someone with no trauma or abusive past (in any manner) that would cause one, it is rare. You know what else is very common and more common than actual block outs due to abuse? Lying, and telling the truth when guilt eats away at you. Unless OP comes her and mentions abuse, trauma, etc. this is the most likely culprit.
Stop thinking about it and focus on the present. No one can help you but you. If she's with you, she wants you. Not them.
Stop thinking about it and focus on the present. No one can help you but you. If she's with you, she wants you. Not them.
Because you are special
How about you get a new bf. He clearly doesn’t trust you
You never know what kind of child you'll have. Mine will scream bloody murder literally all night long if I wasn't around to nurse or comfort him to sleep. Sure, my husband would deal with it alone if he needed to (he's a very hands on dad) but no way i'm willing to put him through that for a fun trip for myself.
Meanwhile one of my friends goes away all the time by herself or with her husband and leaves her baby with her parents.
Every kid is different and every parenthood experience is different. My advice is always refrain from big plans until the baby is with you and you know their temperament and what you're dealing with.
“Dad, I hear your concerns and I love you, and support you through this tough time. But, I think the person you should be talking to about your marriage is mom.”
I'm so sorry bro. I lost my mum at 22 (not Suicide), so I get most of what you are feeling. I also isolated myself and used alcohol as a crutch. It's understandable but wrong. Leave the substances and reach out to your most supportive friend. You are allowed to be upset and you are allowed to show it. Men are allowed feelings bro.
My dm's are open to you if you want to talk to someone else that's lost a parent young. I can't promise to fix anything, but sometimes just talking to someone that gets it can help.
Medical professional here: has he been to the doctor lately? First of all he might be hiding something that way. Secondly his behavior could be indicators of some neurological disorders, which could need intervention pretty quickly.
Also is he seeing a therapist? Are you? Maybe you’d both benefit from seeing a marriage counselor since you don’t feel like communication is up to snuff.
Take care. Hang in there.
Telling her the truth doesn't destroy the family. Keeping the secret does. You have the power to do the right thing and help a woman find out who her husband really is, early in the marriage. Otherwise she may not find out for years and will be stuck with a cheater for that whole time.
Uhm he said “it’s different when it’s your own blood”. Meaning it’s ok for other people but not his family because they aren’t icky like that. He’s a fucking bigot.
If you want custody of your children, don’t give it up just because she wants it. I imagine if I ask you if you care more about your house or your children, you would say your children. You can come to accept that she wants a divorce, but you can’t come to accept being an absent father in any of your children’s lives.
I think this is therapy territory now or things will get worse as time goes on. He is acting from a place of avoidance and fear. He clearly has trauma and it is affecting his decision making process. I come from neglectful and abusive home so I understand how these things impact us as we move through life.
Stick to your guns. I gave up my job when I got married and had our first. 17 years on I am single after a very abusive relationship, have been unemployed all this time and in intensive therapy. I wish I had not given up my autonomy and dreams. I am clawing my way back but it is damn naked.