You need to put things into perspective here; his wife is currently unknowingly living a lie while her husband disrespects her. That’s awful.
Further, you love this guy and want to tell him. But who do you love? You love a guy who you objectively know is unfaithful and can’t be trusted. So let’s say you tell him, he leaves her and you get together. Are you going to trust him?
It sounds like moving is something that is going to affect much more than just your relationship with your partner. If you would be happier staying where you are at right now then do that. You don’t need to rush life, just do what feels right for you. You get to decide what is important to you, not anyone else. Sometimes you can’t have the best of both worlds so if a stable relationship is more important to you than a stable job right now then so be it.
Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
I’m going to say something that might be disliked, but walk your graduation only if you have the conviction to back yourself up later. Because I’m willing to bet your family is the kind to start lobbing hurtful comments or guilt-trips toward you if you don’t appease them. So if you decide to choose yourself (which of course I hope you do), also choose to be your own advocate from here on out. If you need to, take a break from your family for a bit so they can throw whatever tantrum they will without you in the crossfire. Also a big congratulations to you, not everyone can say they made it through med school. That shits tough!
Great advice. Very wise words.
You don't get both unless they agree.
Break up with gf, hit on best friend
You need to put things into perspective here; his wife is currently unknowingly living a lie while her husband disrespects her. That’s awful.
Further, you love this guy and want to tell him. But who do you love? You love a guy who you objectively know is unfaithful and can’t be trusted. So let’s say you tell him, he leaves her and you get together. Are you going to trust him?
It sounds like moving is something that is going to affect much more than just your relationship with your partner. If you would be happier staying where you are at right now then do that. You don’t need to rush life, just do what feels right for you. You get to decide what is important to you, not anyone else. Sometimes you can’t have the best of both worlds so if a stable relationship is more important to you than a stable job right now then so be it.
Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
I’m going to say something that might be disliked, but walk your graduation only if you have the conviction to back yourself up later. Because I’m willing to bet your family is the kind to start lobbing hurtful comments or guilt-trips toward you if you don’t appease them. So if you decide to choose yourself (which of course I hope you do), also choose to be your own advocate from here on out. If you need to, take a break from your family for a bit so they can throw whatever tantrum they will without you in the crossfire. Also a big congratulations to you, not everyone can say they made it through med school. That shits tough!