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Date: December 10, 2022
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Listen, shared expenses do not apply if one partner earns significantly more money. Let him know you weren't aware you would have to contribute any money, explain that you already covered the cost for both of you for visiting your sister, and politely but firmly let him know, that you cannot afford it, period. No “pay me back in January “. If you indeed decide to let him cover your share, explicitly state when you will pay him back, and that when should be a time of your own convenience, which would not force you to work yourself to death.
I’d say you’re perfectly fine, what matters is that you’re both consenting adults
This would be the first time. I’ve started a new awesome job and we had been staying up later than I planned so I was zonked
Right? And when talking about getting a dog he was most excited about taking her for walks, thinking it would be great to encourage him to get more exercise. Now he complains almost every day about having to walk her.
Then express your feelings calmly and politely in a moment that is not emotionally charged. In other words when she gets mad is not the time to address it, it will just make her more mad.
Before you play explain your feelings get hurt when shes gets angry at you and it makes playing not fun. Address what she needs to not get so mad, or why its directed at you.
Again in a setting where things arent reactive, but proactive. “I like playing with you, but it stops being fun when you get angry with me so what can we do differently to make that not happen?”
She sounds kinda immature tho so I'm not sure this mature approach will help that much. If it doesnt help then she prob needs to grow up and learn how to appropriately express negative emotions in ways that don't lash out at the nearest target (you).
Grow up
I don’t know I got off. I’ve been busy.
He’s clearly playing me.
Have you seen an endocrinologist? That’s who caught me estrogen levels but I also found out my body wasn’t producing cortisol which is a major hormone. Low levels of cortisol can cause extreme fatigue which I’m going through but the meds I’m on for it do help. I would have someone, even your primary care physician, run some of your hormone levels to see if anything else is low.
Side note: I would love if women had their version of Viagra as well!!