You’re not setting boundaries – you’re asking her to do something she has no interest in doing, then letting her continue.
She’s not going to stop. Either you’re it happen (not a great choice) or you make it clear that you can’t have a relationship with her if she’s going to act like this, then follow through.
OP, you deserve better! I know how it is to being an abuse victim and then stepping into and staying in other abusive situations BUT you deserve better.
If you have health insurance, I recommend seeing a therapist.
Dads are non negotiable, especially when you love your dad, sleeping over once a month is not a big deal. Supported ?
My doing better is just to be done. I'm sad it came to that, but I've been putting up with this for years, and I'm ready to call it a lost cause.
You’re not setting boundaries – you’re asking her to do something she has no interest in doing, then letting her continue.
She’s not going to stop. Either you’re it happen (not a great choice) or you make it clear that you can’t have a relationship with her if she’s going to act like this, then follow through.
Holy crap how can you be such a doormat?
You let her do what she wants and she is keeping in touch with her exes and fling prospects.
Youndont want to live under one roof with a hoe, she is lying to you all the time.
Don't move in with her and breakup
OP, you deserve better! I know how it is to being an abuse victim and then stepping into and staying in other abusive situations BUT you deserve better.
If you have health insurance, I recommend seeing a therapist.