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I see..thank you
Agreed, and thank you! Hopefully we all come out on the other side
Just tell him that you are not committed to him and likely want to meet other men. If he is smart he will breakup and move on to find someone else.
It could be spam, he could be lying. Impossible to know.
I would be done.
Girl run. That’s all I gotta say. If you’re in a long distance relationship and he says that, he’s definitely going to cheat. I’m doing long distance relationship and my man has done nothing but reassure me. Or said anything like that ever.
Only pro is that he buys me flowers every once in a while. Can’t really think of anything else. Love isn’t materialistic I know, but I can’t really think of anything else that he does. I forgot to add that he’s so impatient when it comes to cooking and waiting for me. Idk man. That’s why I’m finally on Reddit. I just feel like he’s putting an end date on this so what’s the point? He wants to move in together, but yeshhh no
You claimed I like underage children, which is absolutely a disgusting thing to say. All because I dared to challenge the “free thinkers” of reddit's outrage brigade. Honestly, you're a piece of shit.
My dad and mum have light hazel eyes, mine are dark brown like my grandmothers eyes.
You don’t just get eye colour genetics from mum and dad.
Also, ‘A Child Called It’ is a very compelling read. A first hand account from the (now grown) child’s perspective.
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You husband has a lot of things he needs to work through in therapy.
Come on OP, you and I both know that terminating this pregnancy won't help him.
He needs to find constructive methods for dealing with whatever is making him this anxious about having a kid.
If I knew the why's, I'd be writing books and rich.
Lots and lots of people, myself included, had that ex that kept wanting to walk in and out of your life until you flat said enough and kicked them to the curb forever. Come to think of it… that was two ex's for me… I'm such an overachiever.
he would probably like kill the dogs though cuz he’s yknow fucking psycho
Some people think once you make a commitment, you are in an u breakable blood pact no matter what their partner does…I ignore these fools. The ability to leave is not utilized enough. People just stay in misery
I would’ve left him at “Why do you care so much?”
Close friend who isn't a good friend, just give her some excuse tbh I wouldn't even go to the wedding, she sounds horrible.
Your gf wants to sleep with the other guy, and threesome is the way she can do it without “cheating”.
No, you should not. They're your ex.
I’m stable and happy in my current relationship (M23)
And yet you want to self-sabotage the relationship. You should spend more time thinking about that then your ex's life.
Sadly a day where I’ve needed him has collided with a day where he needs to be alone. This happens all too often and we don’t have enough days together where this doesn’t happen .
I think he loves you and is confused. And I think you should cut contact with him and move on emotionally as soon as you possibly can.
He’s a fool to let you go for a bag of magic beans, and it won’t turn out well for him, but you shouldn’t settle for less than you deserve. There’s a world of good guys out there for you to meet once you’re ready.
And you most definitely can do this. Many people before you have. It just sucks huge ass.
I thought the same. I didn't marry him but I now have plenty of emotional scars and a couple of body parts that ache when the weather is bad to remember him by.
You’re right! Thank you
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This is going to be long. I apologize in advance.
Married last fall. Been together for six years. When things are stable we are amazing, but have had issues with communication, reactivity, and agreements over the years. Things were improving during wedding season and then for a few months after but in the last month he is just a different person. He has started a new job which I understand is stressful. I also know that while I have grown in my communication and patience, I am not perfect. I snap occasionally when I can’t get through to him. Some friends are labeling him as abusive but I also want to be sensitive to his differences and challenges.
I don’t even know if I’m making sense but any thoughts are appreciated here. We are in couples therapy fyi.
Tl;dr: my husband is becoming someone else and I don’t know what to do.
Pros: Usually there when I need him. Has been patient with serious family issues (death, dysfunction, etc) over the years. He has autism and ADHD and as a result, he admits I am the only person he has ever loved or cared about. As such he has made strides to grow as a person with my encouragement. Usually good conversations. Good team; make up for each others shortcomings. Great sex. Has really helped me to open up and be playful rather than serious all the time.
Cons:
Agreements
-Agreements are broken when he becomes angry or feels like a situation is unjust. (I.e. we agree to not eat out this week to save money; he will go out to eat by himself regardless if angry about something)
-We make larger scale agreements, and as soon as the agreement is no longer convenient for him, he demands to ‘reevaluate’, which generally leads to him getting whatever he wants regardless of my feelings about it. (I.e. when we returned from our honeymoon in November he was adamant about moving out of our current apartment by the end of the year. I told him that would mean serious saving, and much less frivolous expenditure. I also told him I was also frustrated with the amount he spends on his hobby (thousands). The written agreement we came to (that he signed) was that he would not purchase any more large hobby items until after we bought a house. Two months later, he demanded to “reevaluate” and no matter how much I was against purchasing something else ($1300) he called me controlling and threatened to leave if I did not concede. So I conceded. The newly evaluated agreement was that he would have $400 a month to do with what he pleased, so long as all bills/savings were covered — and that if we hit a rough spot, I would be able to say no to hobby money sometimes. This past month, we have been over $2k short on income (since he started a new job) and I finally said we had to skip hobby money this pay period. He again said that I was controlling his money and went and purchased about $500 of stuff anyway.)
Attitude
-Generally not a team player. Makes decisions based on his wants or needs and does not usually ask for what I want when it comes to decisions. (See above.)
-“Why should I care?” is a common statement if I tell him he is hurting my feelings or that I don’t like the way he is treating me during a conflict.
-Generally dismissive. When I explain that something is important to me, it is usually met with negativity or resistance if he isn’t in agreement. I talked recently about my dream of living in Manhattan. His response was “oh, the place where women go to die?” I told him the negativity bothered me and he said I “just didn’t want to hear the truth.”
-When I tell him I don’t like a certain behavior or that something hurts my feelings, he tells me that I am too sensitive and that I need to toughen up/grow up. -Yells even though I have explained that I find it scary and don’t want it to happen any more. No effort is made to stop the behavior when reminded.
-Withholds affection, denies support, and gives the silent treatment/is hostile when angry. I have discussed with him asking for space if he needs it, and being kind even when angry. He just chooses not to.
Responsibilities
-I have made it very clear that I need responsibilities in the household to be shared, because I will find resentment in becoming the ‘housewife’ figure. I want to share everything as equally as possible. I am aware that sometimes life will make things 40/60 or even 20/80 at times but it has been a consistent pattern that I end up not only doing a majority of the household maintenance, but also picking up the few chores he has agreed to do because he doesn’t do them.
-I have tried many iterations of chore boards, lists, alarms — he ignores them all.
-I have expressed my frustration with having to do it all myself in the past, and he has insisted that I just need to remind him because he forgets. In an effort of working with him instead of against him, I resorted to reminding him every single day when he forgets. This has led to him telling me that I nag him too much. I pulled back on reminding him for days at a time, and then no chores get completed.
Core Issues with Me
-Does not appear to like me as a person
—If I talk about my views on a topic and they conflict with his, he will tell me ‘no’ and educate me on the views I ‘should’ have. This isn’t phrased as a sharing of ideas, but instead a “here is how it actually is.” When I explain that I don’t like this, he explains that he isn’t trying to sway my opinion but the behavior continues.
—I make statements about myself and he says I am wrong.
—I consider myself bisexual and have for most of my life. When talking about this he tells me he doesn’t think that I am, that I am like a highschooler going through a phase, and that we can disagree about it.
—I consider myself centrist, neither liberal nor conservative. When I talk about this, he tells me I am wrong, that I am conservative by not just his standards but by everyone else’s. I explain that I don’t like the label and can be what I want to be, and he tells me I just don’t understand.
Should I wait until he’s better so he can do something towards the house? If I can do it, I’m not the type to sit on my rear end and wait for someone else to do it. Bit of a time crunch as well, the house goes on the market next weekend
My wife does not like sex while she’s on her period. I honestly don’t know if that’s normal or not. I just respect it and then we have a great week of sex once she’s finished. As far as hair goes…she doesn’t really care and neither do I. Although, when she shaves or gets a wax, I know she’s in the mood for me to give her oral. In short, just figure out what works for both of you, if you love her you can go without sex for a week each month.
You married under false pretences, ie you were lied to. That's grounds in some legal systems for an annulment. That's what I'd be doing.
No they don't
She had a choice in that. She doesn't have a choice in whether her husband gets a vasectomy or not just like he doesn't have a choice in whether she gets her tubes tied or not.
You both seem off. why would you leave it on him to book everything you are an adult. kinda feels like you were punishing him. also, Male or female getting physical makes you the bad guy imo.
This has been very encouraging to keep being nakedly open.