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Date: December 4, 2022
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Really hot after that trust is broken. But I will try this. Thanks.
Maybe just a mouthful
Yes ?, definitely ? It is Important for the kids and an investment in your future relationship with them
Schedules haven’t worked out yet…
Yeah I wonder if your husband already slept with her which is why he is gaslighting you about there being a problem.
By the time he reads them, she should have deleted her replies.
She very clearly wants this pregnancy, she’s 39 and has stated so numerous times. Whole situation is fucked. He shouldn’t have told her he wanted to get her pregnant and they both should’ve used protection. Now a kid is going to come into this world that’s only partially wanted.
There is so much here to unpack. You both don't live! together. You both have children. You don't have job stability as you literally just got a job. I wouldn't want to have a kid with anybody under these circumstances, either. You knew you were ovulating and relied on spermicide. At the last minute, nonetheless. Spermicide is meant to be used alongside other contraceptives, not as a stand-alone. Even if you did choose to abort, the damage has already been done to your relationship. If you keep the baby, don't expect him to stick around. I'm not on board with people abandoning their kids. However, this sounds like this baby is going to cause the relationship to become toxic, which will be unhealthy for everyone around, including all the present children.
“He’s a great partner outside of his racism and anti-semitism”. Do you see how stupid that sounds?
This should be the easiest choice of your life. He doesn’t like half of you are and you’ve somehow stayed with him despite him making numerous anti-semitic remarks. He apologizes because that’s what you want to hear and you’re dumb enough to stick around. He’s not actually sorry.
Man I can't tell you how annoying that Facebook update is. I broke up with my ex and the 30 mins it took to get home he had already posted about it and my sister called me having seen it. My ex was 45 at the time ?
Op you deserve better, don't worry about the time you had, look to a healthy relationship in the future.
Might be turn off for the guy making not even want to do it anymore.
But would you not ask your partner what they wanted for their birthday? Because I always have. If they don’t ask, I assume they don’t care.
Coercion isn’t rape in most scenarios, we cheapen the seriousness of rape by calling thing rape and sexual assault that aren’t. Something can be shitty and have to do with sex and not be illegal. It can be immoral all the way to morally reprehensible without being rape or illegal at all.
I read a post like this earlier today and didn’t have the energy to fight about it, but I genuinely believe over persecuting actions is playing into the dismissal of very real and significant assaults that occur.
This is an excellent post, especially the part about how the pain dissappeared with a different man. I was diagnosed with vvs. They wanted to cut away some of me. It didn't seem right. Penetration after the biopsy was excruciating. I did not follow through with the procedure. I did masterbate after and found I could have penetration without pain. I just never knew intill tonight that men actually enjoy long foreplay for her.
I agree with both views and it honestly is about both perspectives. Cheating is a choice (and a series of choices) but you should also avoid risky scenarios. To me, that doesn’t mean avoid being alone with the preferred gender, but there are situations to avoid. Reasons why boundaries are a thing. Let’s say if this girl previously showed interest, then yeah you probably shouldn’t be alone with her.
What was that video lol
Idk. I guess I’m not the type to have a Pinterest board of ring ideas or bring it up a lot.. we discussed marriage a good amount (like the wedding, house kids retirement etc) but never brought up the engagement details for some reason. Before this I only wore one ring consistently (from my grandma) and he designed the engagement ring to match it. Which was sweet but not what I would have chosen.
Let her know so she can recoup the loss on her investment when she divircoes him and takes him to the mat.
Right, because being a mistress is a healthy relationship. Definitely a healthy relationship choice that all children should learn from and model in their life.
Dont have sex with him then, i mean if its not good and hes just gonna be a jerk after just dont let him have sex with you. Thats honestly the least i would do. I would make him real horny then ignore him when he wants sex. This isnt normal and if you can't say no to sex then just fucking talk to each other
You shouldn’t get over it, you should get it of it!!
“I dont like this idea and dont feel comfortable with it.”
That is your answer. There are millions of people who think the idea of strip club bachelor parties are antiquated and unnecessary.
If you aren't having sex workers at your party, he shouldn't at his.
She called me tonight I was planning to end terms this night. When she called me she had tears in her eyes and going down her face. We talked about our days a little bit and she asked anything you want to talk about I said what’s there to talk about she just started tearing up again became completely silent was crying on the floor steering at my face trying to hide it then crawled up in a blanket and cried herself to sleep. This is hurting me way too much because I think she rushed it, and she never thought about what would happen if I actually left her life. I think she’s finally coming to terms with it one way or the other. I was just silent the whole time cracked a couple jokes the silence seemed to hurt her a lot. Why rush with someone if you’re not over me. There’s more to this than being let on. She woke up at 8 pm called me two hours after she woke up, and wanted to talk all night . Id think if you had a boyfriend you’d be doing it with him. Very confusing in all
She is the outsider though. You and your children are the established unit. It can be awkward for people to try to find their place in that. Have there been any attempts to include her in activities? To plan a family day with her involved?
How was she around your kids prior to moving in? How do they feel about her?
This is pretty solid dumping territory, as far as I am concerned.
Oh ok, thank you
I often have that thought, I’m always assured that she does but words don’t do too much for me anymore.
Thank you. I have been seeing a therapist… similar advice. Just give it time. Love myself.
I would say just that. Say “you didn’t do anything for my birthday but now want me to contribute to hers? That’s kind of hurtful”.
I’m very glad to hear it! You two take care
I just stayed away from other girls because it was hot for other people to understand i’m in a relationship and can’t do certain things like go out.
This is only true when you are in and continue to be in an abusive relationship.
He says it’s me and I made him this way and I will take responsibility for that
You did not make him anything. He is all that on his own. None of this is normal or healthy. You are in an abusive relationship and he has successfully gaslit you into believing that you asked for it so he can continue to get away with his abuse.
He is not going to change. You should not be putting up with this.
I live! in Texas hun. No there isn’t.
Loved your support, thank you
The vast majority of women are preyed on by their partner, friends (including friends of partners), and family. In real world risk strangers at the bar are less of a risk than someone you know.
If you're concerned about the safety of your loved ones…the call is coming from inside your house. Make sure everyone you associate with knows and understands consent.
I'm biased since I'm a daily stoner and have been for 18 years. That includes throughout the day, public use etc… all my friends smoke it. My own grandma who is against drugs makes edible brownies to help with sleep and pain she has. It's legal where I live! though and can be smoked in public anywhere its also legal to smoke cigarettes.
I have had a toke then gone to town, had a toke than did a workout, I've done every activity stoned. Used a pen while uptown in public, smoked a joint walking down the street. Smoked before doctor appointments. If you've seen me, 99% chance I'm high and you'd have no idea. I'm able to function and on-line life normally. I'm even a mother of two.
My one friend owns a salon. I was the only client at the end of the day. We took a break between coats on my nails and went out to smoke a joint. My dad gives me bags of weed as payment when I house sit. He's a respectable and well known person in our small town. He does most of the cabinetry in town at local businesses snd works with all the contractors. He smokes.
You likely have a image of the “type” of people who smoke daily or often. I can assure you we can also be completely normal people with jobs, kids and are respectable people that can still function. People of all walks of life smoke weed. Sounds like you two aren't compatible.
We all had a bit to drink but he can generally hold his drink, I don’t remember him being very drunk although now he maintains he was.
Sometimes it’s me her screaming “i don’t know what’s wrong with me” or “ I am attracted to you” But I’m constantly saying “ your actions do not match your words” and “ I just want a sex life, I want to feel wanted”
I mean you're with her for the right reasons which is good, but if you find parts of her beautiful like her personality and compatibility, just tell her she's beautiful. If someone was honest with me and said I didn't look good but they find my personality i'd understand but felt like they could have spared my feelings a little… I'm on the side of, do not hurt her.
Creepy ass pedophile, fuck you're disgusting and also time to cut that little sister that you've known since she was 13 out of your life if that the way you feel. Don't ruin a a sisters relationship because of your creepy feelings, leave her alone and keep your distance
Yes it’s clearly super fucked up and it’s good you are aware of that. Why are you staying ?
“He asks me for the water bottle to put water in his hair”. Just read to me like he asked for the bottle.
It’s clearly abuse either way no matter what
yea my parent don't like it that I play video games. this smart phone I am using I manage to buy after saving for 3 years.
im 16 everyone has a smart phone my parents refused to buy me games or tablet smart phone etc.
my pc that I use for gaming was a hand me down from a friend his parent bought him 2013. its an XPS 8500 1gb video card 12gig ram I7 3770.
usually when I ask for games on GOG its older games one with low requirements.
yep my parents are stingy, but they aren't exactly swimming in money either, but even when they do have money at this point I stopped asking for video games.
I have better chance getting them from a friend than from my own parents. one of the reason they don't even give me cash on my birthday so that can't buy video games.
Which means you don’t have a good grasp on loyalty or fidelity or trust. Cheating once is a bad enough betrayal and breach; doing it more than once is disgusting and downright flagrantly disrespectful to your partner.
Yeah – because it’s reasonable to have to minimise your talents and abilities so that a man with a fragile ego feels secure. Basically flutter your eyelashes and play helpless, so that his pride isn’t bruised, even when you can see there is an urgent imperative to get the job done, and he is not able to. Pfffft. That sounds healthy. /s
Sigh. When is everybody gonna grow up and just be decent to the other humans?
Ps. Good on you, OP, for being so kind and putting in so much effort to build your joint future and try to help your partner when he was under pressure. Sorry that he and some others are such dinosaurs in their thinking. You deserve better treatment. Now at least you know which type to avoid in the future. You won’t to go for a healthy well-rounded person who doesn’t expect you to be less, in order for him to feel like he’s enough.
God no, I just mean that I can't act sexually myself because I think he will start laughing or I will. Like we are more like family than sexual passionate partners. Since we live! with his mom we started having sex super low key ofc so she never hears and it became less and less spontaneous and fun. I'm not disgusted at all, I'm actually horny, but my brain is like :cmon you can't act all sexy right now, this is ridiculous
Could you please elaborate?
So you wake up from a black out and there is a hot girl on your bed. The first thing is to call your gf is to tell her what you know (not what you guess or what you’re being told) and what you plan to do about it: “I just woke up and Abc is here, I don’t know what happened but I am going to find out and I hope to god I wasn’t the kind of idiot who would cheat on you”.
You didn’t do that, you didn’t include her in your ridiculous story, you lost her and now it’s best to leave her alone so she can rebuild her life.
Now, as to what happened. Based on comments it sounds like you were played by Abc and you probably didn’t have sex at all. What kind of person films herself having sex with someone for the first time? And someone so drunk? Nah, she probably filmed herself taking off your clothes and nothing more. She didn’t go to a single doctor’s appointment and didn’t have any hard proof that she was actually pregnant. She just wanted to get engaged with you and hope you’ll grow to love her.
The truth here doesn’t matter, or who is right or wrong. Now you can choose to learn from your mistakes (especially not calling gf first or not asking for proof or eye witnesses), read some self-help and become a better person.
Agreed, he's loving his daughter and putting her first already ?
Your feelings are perfectly normal and it seems you expressed the in a healthy manner. There’s no need to navigate them. All that’s left for you to do is reinforce them.
What was his reaction to this conversation? If he stands behind with you, that’s good. Did he try to argue? If so, you need to let him know that any private communication with her will make you uncomfortable, not because you don’t trust him, but because her behavior made it clear that she is after more than platonic friendship. It would be disrespectful to you for him to continue a friendship after you communicated your feelings. As your partner, it’s his duty to try to make you feel secure in the relationship. Befriending an overly flirty, single, and beautiful woman does the opposite of that.