If you’re disgusting for one relationship he’s double disgusting. Judge him by his own standards and say you’ve seen how disgusting it is and that he’s right, so you’re breaking up with him cause he’s twice as disgusting as you.
Also I explained it in last post. The problem was that he didn’t brush in the morning(only at night before bed) and when he did brush he only brushed the teeth and not the tongue. He flosses but was never aware of the need to brush in the morning as well as at night. Now he’ll be brushing at both though and brushing the tongue as well. So far so good!
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This is lame. My favorite friends parents were the ones who got along despite being divorced. Your wife doesn’t give a shit about your kids. This is her insecurity and her shit to deal with. Not your problem.
have you played against your wife lately? Has her skill changed? If you can now beat her that would suggest something is wrong, she needs medical attention to see what. If you still can't beat her then obviously she is lying to you for whatever reason, up to you if you escalate it further.
I would imagine he will also be more dangerous if he were to know that she's actually pregnant. She definitely does not need to let him know that she's pregnant and that she's leaving. I'm definitely afraid that she would be harmed.
She lies because she's insecure and is afraid of your reaction if she tells you the truth. I think I would gently try to get into some couples counseling and see if you can work on it.
Your both adults so I think an actual face to face conversation about it would be the right way to go. Sit down and lay your feelings out and ask him if he wants to put effort into this. But at 30 he should be more than capable to text you.
Either you trust your bf or you don’t. You only don’t like this girl because she’s a female you see her as a threat. She isn’t to blend for her bf cheating on her and your bf’s friendship ending due to that fact.
It was him, her, and her child was in her bedroom. It wasn’t a possibility for me to come get him because I’m away on a trip. I genuinely believe nothing happened but it still makes me feel wildly uncomfortable
That could be him gaslighting you too. Thats what cheaters always do. Be very careful.
If you’re disgusting for one relationship he’s double disgusting. Judge him by his own standards and say you’ve seen how disgusting it is and that he’s right, so you’re breaking up with him cause he’s twice as disgusting as you.
I think it's kind of a weird way to say it/frame it, but fundamentally, there's nothing particularly strange about your positions.
He doesn’t trust you and with every baby he confirms this and makes it easier for him to (continue) cheating.
Sounds like she did you a favor. Why are you still spending time with her?
it’s best for her to not drink at all if it’s that easy to get blackout drunk. It’s dangerous + she can end up in the same situation again
Yeah well nothing will change. Good luck
Yeah you raised him and he's become a good person but those rules were still shitty.
Could you try using words with him?
Also I explained it in last post. The problem was that he didn’t brush in the morning(only at night before bed) and when he did brush he only brushed the teeth and not the tongue. He flosses but was never aware of the need to brush in the morning as well as at night. Now he’ll be brushing at both though and brushing the tongue as well. So far so good!
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This is lame. My favorite friends parents were the ones who got along despite being divorced. Your wife doesn’t give a shit about your kids. This is her insecurity and her shit to deal with. Not your problem.
The other issue here is that OP, by his own admission, has cancelled plans with his girlfriend several times when something more fun comes up.
have you played against your wife lately? Has her skill changed? If you can now beat her that would suggest something is wrong, she needs medical attention to see what. If you still can't beat her then obviously she is lying to you for whatever reason, up to you if you escalate it further.
I would imagine he will also be more dangerous if he were to know that she's actually pregnant. She definitely does not need to let him know that she's pregnant and that she's leaving. I'm definitely afraid that she would be harmed.
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Might want to delete your comment history if you want to continue this bs. 6 months ago you were 18 and had a gf??♀️
She lies because she's insecure and is afraid of your reaction if she tells you the truth. I think I would gently try to get into some couples counseling and see if you can work on it.
Your both adults so I think an actual face to face conversation about it would be the right way to go. Sit down and lay your feelings out and ask him if he wants to put effort into this. But at 30 he should be more than capable to text you.
learn to read
let her do what she wants, help her not be so broken by unrealistic expectations
BUT ITS HER BIRTHDAY!!! s/
It’s pretty shitty not to invite the spouses to the coed bachelor part weekend.
Either you trust your bf or you don’t. You only don’t like this girl because she’s a female you see her as a threat. She isn’t to blend for her bf cheating on her and your bf’s friendship ending due to that fact.
Sounds like he could be neurodivergent. The big sign for me was him realising the partying wasn't for him and him withdrawing from that group.
get a video, voice recording, text where she admits she was joking.
be all like “baby let's talk, i think we both went too far the other night”. get her to admit saying what she said.
make sure you have a recording, then RUN LIKE FLO JO'S ASS IS ON FIRE!!!!!
send the recording to everyone. because she WILL tell everyone anyway because she's nutz and will be super pissed if you drop her.
cover your ass first, then drop her.
When was I weird about him going out? I'm perfectly fine with it as long as he's able to text me when he's back home
It's a bad idea to put sugar based food in the vagina as that's a promise for an infection.
But it seems like her “creeped out ness” is more than just the health hazard of that.
Sounds like she went to a kink level 1 and you went to a 7 (in her view). Whereas you seem to see yours as the same level as hers.
And tbh, I think the gummy bear play idea is really cute (except for the vagina part due to the health issues).
Then I have no idea where your boyfriend is coming from. His position sounds absurd.
You clearly both contribute to the bills and if that's the case I don't understand the 90/10 breakdown of in home chores.
It sounds like he is getting the better end of the deal.
It was him, her, and her child was in her bedroom. It wasn’t a possibility for me to come get him because I’m away on a trip. I genuinely believe nothing happened but it still makes me feel wildly uncomfortable