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I honestly think a lot of you are missing the part where I said our baby was not planned… ?♀️ we did not plan for a baby, although I did make the decision to keep the baby… We were not “trying” for a baby. My husband and I were sexually active (as most are, I would assume) and I accidentally became pregnant. Believe it or not, sometimes prevention methods fail.
And while you’re on this break I would bet my entire life savings he is talking to her and stepping into that door. Sorry girl, but a break is just a way for him to do what he wants and then tell you how much he missed you and spew bullshit to pull at your heart strings and get you back. If you need a break then you really need a breakup. Find someone who respects you cause what you described is notttt it.
You did the right thing. He lied several times, throughout planning the trip, leaving for the trip, being on the trip and then after. He’s not worth a second chance.
I see the logic in how it could be toxic but the MFF is something her and I both wanted, and she was definitely pushing more for that than I was, so I saw it was something for both of us. I'm not sure how I was denying her feelings but I will need to think on that, thank you for the perspective.
Teaching was just a temporary job to him, he didn’t find himself in it, just stayed to make enough money then left town when he did. Trust me, my friends asked around, there isn’t some weird story that got him fired or kicked out, and that would’ve been all over the news lmao
I'll amend my previous comment Your husband , knowingly doing this is an asshole……
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I honestly think a lot of you are missing the part where I said our baby was not planned… ?♀️ we did not plan for a baby, although I did make the decision to keep the baby… We were not “trying” for a baby. My husband and I were sexually active (as most are, I would assume) and I accidentally became pregnant. Believe it or not, sometimes prevention methods fail.
And while you’re on this break I would bet my entire life savings he is talking to her and stepping into that door. Sorry girl, but a break is just a way for him to do what he wants and then tell you how much he missed you and spew bullshit to pull at your heart strings and get you back. If you need a break then you really need a breakup. Find someone who respects you cause what you described is notttt it.
Wait. You’ve been together 12 years. So 26 and 15????
You did the right thing. He lied several times, throughout planning the trip, leaving for the trip, being on the trip and then after. He’s not worth a second chance.
He sounds like an insecure twat!
I see the logic in how it could be toxic but the MFF is something her and I both wanted, and she was definitely pushing more for that than I was, so I saw it was something for both of us. I'm not sure how I was denying her feelings but I will need to think on that, thank you for the perspective.
Teaching was just a temporary job to him, he didn’t find himself in it, just stayed to make enough money then left town when he did. Trust me, my friends asked around, there isn’t some weird story that got him fired or kicked out, and that would’ve been all over the news lmao