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Date: November 30, 2022
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What's her relationship with your brother?
10 minutes in general seems like a good time for most things sexual imo.
That's why I never dated a frat boy, the ones I knew Carried that thought process into their life after college. The ones I knew were very arrogant and manipulating guys and all of them cheated on their GF's because that's what they did in college. I hope he doesn't do that but don't be surprised when he tells you he did.
Yeah you did the right thing . Sounds like he needs some more time to work on himself . Stupid lying is crazy. No reason for it so why do they? Lying like that is a deal breaker for me. Who wants to worry all the time about whether being lied to or are they where they say they are. It's a brain drain and causes stress. I had my son at 31, my friend had hers at 38. It'll happen when it's supposed to. Just keep in mind that you should limit the amount of chances given to one, possibly two depending . If they go past two they will go to 22 or more . You're setting your life the way you want it, the exact right thing to do.
I’m the same way, I’m not married tho
YOU feel guilty? Dude. She cheated on you and refuses to break contact with her fling, and does not even respect you enough to be sorry for her actions. Give YOURSELF the Christmas present of not being stuck with a dirty cheater any longer. Break it off already.
First take a day off work- protect your finances, change all codes. Check your lease. If she is not on it, she needs to leave. If you are on it with her, talk to the landlord about removing your name. If you can leave immediately, see if a friend or coworker will put you up for a week or two. Then consider options. 1. Do you want to go back to your hometown? Will a friend there put you while you look for work or get your old job back? 2. Do you want to see if your current job will relocate you -and start fresh somewhere new? If they don't have any openings just start sending applications to jobs in whichever city you fancy. 3. Do you want to take a vacation (visit friends in home town), then return to your current job and city and start fresh making a new friend group and new home in a different area of the city?
You have choices. You can definitely overcome this.
It said there are 2 comments but I can’t see the response
Biphobia is unfortunately very common
You are in an abusive relationship. If you had a friend going through this, what would you tell them to do? Violence is never ok. You’re child is an infant right now but that doesn’t mean his home environment can’t impact him. What outside support do you have? Friends/family? Do you participate in counseling on your own? First open your own email account, start documenting when fights happen etc. FWIW I worked child protection for seven years and if we were involved we’d be making a safety plan to ensure your kids safety. Is this the environment you want them to grow up in?
Its all good until you pulled the self care bullshit to play video games bit. Its doesnt fucking matter what the wife thinks. Its something he does for himself. Reading doesnt benefit her. Neither does exercise. Why are you deeming what works for him or doesnt. I mean if she liked video games, would you advocate that she doesnt do it?
Come on now.
Thank you for the advice I appreciate it. I’m slowly disengaging and blocking them. I’ve explained to my friends who are furious with what’s going on about what I’m doing and the response I’ve gotten from those friends are the response I’ve received here. I’m happy to know that there are people who care whether it’s a stranger on the internet or some friends.
This has taught me I don’t need 20 friends I just need 3 – 5 close friends who I can count on and they can count on me.
You totally missed the sarcasm.
Anyways, let me dumb it down for the folks here.
Your best friend is choosing to stay in a friendship with you in the hope that at some point, the friendship will escalate into a situationship, or into a relationship. He's being friendzoned, by you. Every time you sleep with somebody else, his dream of sleeping with you is shattered once more. And this is consuming him internally.
If you want another version of it, tell me the spice you want in it and I'll mix it and give you the narrative you need.
Let me know.
Peace!
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It's a bad idea to wake up a baby. Since you have a guest room, just use it.
But also, you should be transitioning your kid into another room at some point, so talk about that, and talk about if it would be OK to return to your room when that happens. If you care about the impact on your relationship, I swear that everybody being sleep deprived is a lot less healthy than everybody sleeping in different beds.
I saw red over that line.
Some women are like this. They want a boyfriend without actual needing to have a boyfriend. She wants all the perks but none of the commitment.
And of course, she will deny any of it if confronted about it.
How does she feel about you being with other women? Does she get jealous or clingy?
You’re definitely being judge mental and I urge you to read about Judaism if you’re going to be with a Jewish person, especially a Jewish female. Circumcision isn’t something that’s just cultural, it is a commandment from G-d. If you marry this girl, you need to be prepared for a fight over whether to circumcise, or not, because she may find it immoral now, but things change when you have a child. That being said, just don’t go. Don’t make a big deal about how you think it’s unethical, just say that you have other plans. Nobody in her family is going to take it well if you make this some kind of ethical argument.
Oh, I wasn't even talking about the “die” part, just pointing out that he only cares about his granddaughter, not his daughter.
I didn't read it all. Mother and daughter are both toxic and you should move out. I mean why all of these paragraphs when you've obviously entered an absolute shithole where you do not matter. Leave.
More important than the “are billionaires ethical people” is the basic question of — Why does this question mean anything to you?
Because neither of you are in a position to take action for or against the status of billionaires. You are, effectively, picking a fight about whether or not it is OK to travel in time to murder your future/past self in a jurisdiction that has legalized self-euthanasia.
On a wider view, your ethical litmus test is … about what you’d expect from a college sophomore. It’s like asking if using electricity is ethical — but ignores that there’s a difference between heating your home to 85 F in the dead of winter so you can lounge in your swimwear and having lights on to see your way around the house. Start learning the art of nuance.
Lol omg this is hilarious that you’re upset over some bare breasts. Please grow up, it’s your GFs body and she can do what she wants. You’re not entitled to her body.
He is defo controlling and that's a red flag, so get out of there. Sidenote your coworker is really disrespectful to your relationship in general and I would limit contact with him as much as possible, asking ” when are you breaking up” is crossing 100's of lines.
You sound like an emotional mess to be honest and you don’t really have your stuff in order, him aside. Seek therapy.
Whole lotta ifs in that slippery slope you've got going there.
INFO: what do you mean by stalks? that’s a word with criminal connotations… does he follow her around town and peek in her windows at night or does he look her up on social media every day?
What need are missing?
What did you keep fighting about and was it really solved or just avoided?
I don’t see what you can say to your friend. It’s one of those situations where you didn’t do anything wrong but he’s going to be very upset and think the worst. Just give it time and he might get over it.
You and Mia should probably take the risk and try dating. You two seem to have something.
He’s a fucking child. You should be the one sitting down while he does these things. And for him to have the audacity to be upset that you’re not spending time with him??
You should edit your title. He’s not a partner at all.
Correct
If I were you I would leave him. I think he wants to see if he wants to be with the other girl, but keeping you in case he doesn’t. I’m sorry, you sound like a very sweet person!
“I don’t have time to invest in a relationship but still want the sex on tap, please help” – OP
Cassidy is my gf. Sally is her friend. I'm not upset that Sally doesn't like me. Yeah, it sucks. But I feel it is justified. However, I feel like as a friend, she should be supportive of Cassidy even though she doesn't like me. Sally being shitty towards me gives Cassidy anxiety.
I would have less of a problem that Alan is there if I was invited. Cassidy stated one of the reasons she doesn't want me there is bc she doesn't want to make Alan uncomfortable by me being there. It also seems that even tho Cassidy and Alan are no longer together, they all want to keep their friend group together. If Alan gets a gf, she is welcome to join in on game night bc Cassidy has stated it wouldn't bother her. Cassidy can't do the same though.
I don't want their friendship to end. Even if I hated Sally with everything inside of me, I know Cassidy cares about her and looks at her as a sister and I would never want her to lose her. I just want things to be smoothed out between me and Sally. But even if they were, there is still the situation with Alan feeling uncomfortable.
I wasn't trying to justify the things I said to her. I was trying to give backstory. Regardless of what she was doing, I was still wrong by saying the things I said.
Individual therapy!
Couples therapy is bad for abuse victims because it gives the abusers more emotional ammo and they just lie to always be right to the therapist.
Well you sure as hell weren't using enough contraceptive to NOT get pregnant so you weren't trying to prevent it, either.
She didn't cheat. They broke up in August, per OP's own statement. Dating someone starting in December cannot possibly be cheating if she was a free agent.
Yes.
Time to fight back. Make it uncomfortable for the friend. Have loud sex with wife, be extra cuddly with wife when friend is around, prepare only enough food for wife, child and yourself. Dont have any requested food in the house and eat the friends food. Plan events for wife, child and yourself, in other words do family things excluding the friend.
The way i imagine things will play if you go is the group will tell you to relax and have a drink ,to enjoy the moment,maybe they will portray your boyfriend in a bad manner and one guy try to play the understanding man
Or maybe not all 3 males are the chad guys that we think and just want to hang out without having sex in mind
What i don't understand is if you go with your own expenses why not bring partners together?
This way you can have a team-bonding while having the some time with your boyfriend
I guess I'm confused, you want to have sex with a woman to see if you're bisexual? Or to spice things up with your boyfriend?
It's definitely a double standard that he's okay with you being with a woman but not a man. It's homophobic and shows that he doesn't see relationships between women as valid.
Honestly you probably won't find anyone. Who would want to come over to feel like some weird experimental sex toy?
Honestly you're trying too hot to make it sound dramatic. You need to ask yourself who your characters are, their beliefs, fears, goals and flaws, and that way you can make their actions much more natural. Right now they just seem to be acting so the plot can happen
I mean she could have been manipulating him? That's a really strong possibility.
It's either –
OP and his fiancé were so idiotic that NEVER discussed if they want kids
OR
OP's fiancé had a recent change of mind
OR
She knew that OP wanted kids, but loved him so she waited till he couldn't easily get out.
I don’t think getting married is a think I would to do in my life. I would prefer to be in a relationship without getting married
“Same I didn’t know female strippers did that I kinda of thing” It honestly sounds like your trust is already broken
That’s what I plan to do, I’m just hoping she isn’t expecting anything either. I’d hate to make her feel bad but before anything happens again, I think she needs to know how I look at our relationship.
I was also going through issues with intimacy and performance. And we made it a point to talk through it, work on it together.
But when it was affecting him, he decided things without including me.
My issue isn’t the fact that he decided to medicate himself, but the double standard at play here.
Communication. “Hey, I feel this tension now and I'm not really interested. However, I really like you as i friend, and I really want to hang out.”
Well, having all of those conversations now, at once, is a bit too early, yes.
However, you're at a jump-off point now: – You either take the leap and have faith that he will change down the road as you get to those bridges. – End things now before you get more attached and can possibly salvage the strong friendship.
Both options may produce regrets, though they'll be different kinds.
UpdateMe!
You had one job as a mother ONE JOB!!!
Sorry, but it’s not cool. She’s not really a friend. I say sleep with her ex bf and see how she would feel. Lol anyway, I wouldn’t consider her a friend.
Go to your graduation. You are finishing med school that is a huge achievement and you don't deserve to miss your graduation. Maybe you can organise a combined celebration with your friends.
This belongs in r/badwomensanatomy istg
So… your boyfriend falsely accused an innocent woman of raping him as a child. His friends and family believe he was molested as a 13-year-old, but didn't do anything about it. Yet your main takeaway from this situation is that he lied to you?