I’m socially awkward ? but I will definitely try! I found my soccer team through facebook & I’ve had good luck finding people on facebook in the past, so hopefully it works out again here. I also hadn’t thought of bumblebff but it’s definitely worth a try! I got 6 more months to try to make it work here
There is no problem with having feelings, its completely normal. The problem starts when you act on them, if you love your partner and enjoy your relationship then just dont act on them.
If you don't count this as cheating, it should absolutely be a red flag. She's telling you she gets trashed at clubs and makes bad judgment decisions. In those situations.
I offered a similar solution where if he feels I'm forgetting or not listening, then he can always double check to make sure I'm listening. He says he feels that sounds like he is ultimately accountable for my forgetfulness and that I should be the one taking accountability, which I don't know how to feel about. I can sort of see his side, it's just hot for me to agree because I seem to remember my own plans and appointments that don't rely on his communication.
This. I understand why you’re hurt and I would be too in your situation. But from the beginning you were against the trip, and IMO after only a year of being together, I think that’s a little too controlling. Especially knowing that the trip is important to his brother/family. After everything that happened, he likely felt that you coming would be a burden but didn’t know how to address that with you. I disagree with everyone else saying that he’s just going to cheat on you. That’s a huge Reddit leap not supported by anything other than pure speculation, distrust, and stereotyping.
You can't make her do anything.
It means he probably farts on his own dinner before he eats it.
Dump him. He's an extreme alcoholic and you deserve better.
Thank you for your comment!
I’m socially awkward ? but I will definitely try! I found my soccer team through facebook & I’ve had good luck finding people on facebook in the past, so hopefully it works out again here. I also hadn’t thought of bumblebff but it’s definitely worth a try! I got 6 more months to try to make it work here
There is no problem with having feelings, its completely normal. The problem starts when you act on them, if you love your partner and enjoy your relationship then just dont act on them.
So you are a bit strange but that's ok. I am sure there is someone out there that will love you for you. But it's not that guy.
Bruh lmao
If you don't count this as cheating, it should absolutely be a red flag. She's telling you she gets trashed at clubs and makes bad judgment decisions. In those situations.
I offered a similar solution where if he feels I'm forgetting or not listening, then he can always double check to make sure I'm listening. He says he feels that sounds like he is ultimately accountable for my forgetfulness and that I should be the one taking accountability, which I don't know how to feel about. I can sort of see his side, it's just hot for me to agree because I seem to remember my own plans and appointments that don't rely on his communication.
You married a man child.
This. I understand why you’re hurt and I would be too in your situation. But from the beginning you were against the trip, and IMO after only a year of being together, I think that’s a little too controlling. Especially knowing that the trip is important to his brother/family. After everything that happened, he likely felt that you coming would be a burden but didn’t know how to address that with you. I disagree with everyone else saying that he’s just going to cheat on you. That’s a huge Reddit leap not supported by anything other than pure speculation, distrust, and stereotyping.