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Date: November 29, 2022
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How old were you guys
I don’t know. I really don’t. It puts me in a complicated situation of realizing that I will have to live this down the rest of my life. However, I don’t want to hurt my wife even further, even though she’s unaware of the affair.
Besides the age thing. He is openly allowed to screw whoever he wants but OP is not. She called it a semi open relationship
Yup. He’s backpedaled now and said he’s not going to push her into it, but that post, man. Not okay.
Wow, there’s a lot of assumptions here. You don’t know what OP wants. He is clearly remorseful and you’re making an unfair accusation / assumption.
We don’t know if OP’s fiancé has always felt this way or if this is a recent change of heart. Hot to believe she suddenly changed her mind. For many people, not having kids is a dealbreaker. It’s not for OP but it could have been.
It doesn’t matter that you didn’t mean it. What matters is that you took something you know that hurts her and weaponized it to HURT her. Your first reaction to her revealing her vulnerability was to lash out and attack her??? What the hell is wrong with you???
You did nothing wrong here and the only social cue you’re potentially missing is that friend is a bit of an immature dick.
He likely has already allocated those tickets to friends but he’s too immature to just be straight forward and tell you that and ask you to buy your own ticket and creating an unnecessary situation which could be solved really easily and definitely does not need to be discussed later.
That’s true, I didn’t consider that perspective, thanks !
My ex and I tried to do this. My only advise is don’t. Once it’s over, it’s over. Dragging it out for a year will only make you resent him and he you, especially if financially he’s supporting you through it. You will feel used, and only worth what you are willing to do for him for the sake of keeping the status quo. Leaving seems hot and messy and expensive, but so is the emotional turmoil you are going to put yourself through.
Do yourself a favor and value yourself more.
-I was in a car ride with his mom who hated me, for 5 hours. The first 3 hours she was trash talking everyone in the family who did a lot for her. i vented to my SIL through texts trying to keep the peace in the car because I couldn’t believe how ungrateful and back stabbing she was. Well, SIL showed BIL who called his mom while I was still trapped alone with her and called her out on what she was saying. She obviously knew exactly who said what and the last two hours were awkward fights about how I betrayed her trust. She never got over it, not even 10 years and two kids later she still hated me and caused issues. When we separated he treated me like every bill was doubly owed and resented me for it. The resentments became unbearable.
You deserve better than that. Pick up the pieces and move on before he grinds them to dust and you have to reinvent who you are