Honestly, I sensed the bullshit when he started talking about how much he boinked his wife to “disabuse” her doubts about his sexual attraction to her. Just seemed like an unnecessary detail either for flexing or embellishing purposes.
He knows that he has serious psychological problems and refuses to get treatment. Why on earth do you believe that he will ever change? You can't believe anything he tells you. It is safe to assume that everything he says is a lie, calculated to get you to stay.
Run. If abortion is the right decision for you, do it. If you ultimately can't, you still need to get away from him. You are young. Don't destroy your life for him.
For the most part my reaction to your post is it just sounds like she doesn't do it for you, and as it happens sometimes the most perfect people just don't make the perfect partners for us.
But what I think is overlooked here is the kicking you out after sex to debrief with her roommates that is so fucked up lmao. Like one, it's fairly personal shit to be talking to your friends about (especially with a relationship so new) and two, that's insanely rude to you! It comes off that she was just using you and then kicked you out, I can't for the life of me understand how you stayed in a relationship with her after that I would feel so hurt
You are not blowing things out of proportion. Do whatever you need to keep yourself safe.
Call your husband immediately! Your BIL could run to him and tell him anything he wants and destroy your marriage!
Keep the piercing. Ditch your immature boyfriend.
Honestly, I sensed the bullshit when he started talking about how much he boinked his wife to “disabuse” her doubts about his sexual attraction to her. Just seemed like an unnecessary detail either for flexing or embellishing purposes.
He knows that he has serious psychological problems and refuses to get treatment. Why on earth do you believe that he will ever change? You can't believe anything he tells you. It is safe to assume that everything he says is a lie, calculated to get you to stay.
Run. If abortion is the right decision for you, do it. If you ultimately can't, you still need to get away from him. You are young. Don't destroy your life for him.
WAIT.
He has you hiding that you are in a relationship in front of her?
He says she’s crazy?
He sleeps in bed with her?
He tells you cruel details about sexual acts with her?
And here you are believing him that you are special to him and he’s just being nice to her?
I’m so sad for you right now. It’s time to wake up from this dream. This guy is playing you so hot right now.
For the most part my reaction to your post is it just sounds like she doesn't do it for you, and as it happens sometimes the most perfect people just don't make the perfect partners for us.
But what I think is overlooked here is the kicking you out after sex to debrief with her roommates that is so fucked up lmao. Like one, it's fairly personal shit to be talking to your friends about (especially with a relationship so new) and two, that's insanely rude to you! It comes off that she was just using you and then kicked you out, I can't for the life of me understand how you stayed in a relationship with her after that I would feel so hurt
Well, I mean you just made the prosecution's life easier if the police ever get your phone.