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So your question is how do you approach your wife, in that you want her to block him and go no contact with him.
I would ask her to imagine that you were attacked and nearly killed by someone you were both friends with, that you saw them point a shotgun at you and that was majorly traumatising and you want nothing to do with them ever again.
But she has maintained contact with this person and is talking about seeing them.
Because this is the root of the issue, you have seen the worst of him, over and over, and you want nothing to do with him ever again, so any contact she has with him hurts you and keeps what happened fresh in your mind so to speak. It is a betrayal of support for you.
Again the problem is that she has been trained to forgive him time and time again. That if she doesn't do what he wants he gets annoyed and angry and MIL wants to keep him calm and placate and will drag your wife into this mess because her refusal to go along is seen as causing problems. If she only gave in then there would be no problems to fix.
It is called rocking the boat in that MIL is keeping the boat steady for her son to be in control because he is the one she wants to keep calm, you and your wife are in your own boat and by refusing to get back into their boat is the problem.
The only fix is to go no contact or low contact with extreme boundaries with them all, MIL is the one guilt tripping your wife into keeping contact for her own needs, it is MIL that needs a serious time out.
Given that this situation has involved you preventing a death of her father, this isn't a mild case of MIL interference in your life, it is literally having been attacked by him and you want nothing to do with him ever again. Either your wife is on board with that or you have to decide if you can continue with people who chose to ignore and support him.
From my own experience of a serious life threatening attack of a family member towards another family member – moving away helps a lot. Distance helped to deal with any questions of contact.
You are incompatible. She doesn't want kids, you do. Neither of you should have to change that. You'll have to find someone else.
He’s an electrician, he is not doing hot physical labour. He’s full of shit & can cook his own food. Stop cooking for him.
As a rule of thumb: If you pressure your partner into cutting ties with old flames and friends you are the bad guy in that relationship. And the only outcome it will have is what you experience right now. Your behaviour is controlling.
You won't prevent your partner from having contact with an ex ever. Learn to deal with your insecurities or find someone that obeys your demands and will resent you in silence for it.
I think she is showing you her true colors and you deserve somebody better than that.