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That sort of relationship requires a lot of communication. It has to be formalized with safe words and a expectations. Just 'throwing that into' your relationship is an accident waiting to happen. If she is unable to talk to you about it openly you should put a stop to it.
Plot twist. They actually planned the sex scene and getting caught.
This isn't AITA. This isn't a subforum for AITA that allows relationship posts. Check out Am I The Butthole if you want somewhere to post AITA posts about relationships.
This is a subreddit for relationship advice. Please see rule number 3.
You’re not together. He’s right.
Congrats! You’re not a girlfriend, you’re a nanny.
You don't just go home with a stranger
She was buzzed , is that all it took?
How much time does she spend with him that night?
What did she do after you dropped her off home and left?
You are not her babysitter and you can't see what she gets up to all the time , imagine she says I'm going for a drink with the girls….
Nah bro make the decision that isn't going to give you a disease or someone else's kid to father.
I mean if it's been 5 years and she's chosen to break up… It's probably not fixable.
That sort of relationship requires a lot of communication. It has to be formalized with safe words and a expectations. Just 'throwing that into' your relationship is an accident waiting to happen. If she is unable to talk to you about it openly you should put a stop to it.